Is It Alright For Parents To Financially Support One Child?

Parents who support their children are less apparent in the Western setting where independence is practiced. In Singapore, it is more acceptable as we live within a predominately Asian culture.

Financial favoritism is an issue that strikes a chord in my heart as I have witnessed it happen numerous times in my family. Some of my distant relatives have relied immensely on their parents’ support throughout their lifetime. In most of these cases, there was one sibling (i.e., “the financial favorite”) who needed the money more than the others. It is pretty much an unspoken rule to lend a hand to a son or daughter in need.

Basing on ownership, your parents’ wealth is theirs to spend. They are free to give it away during appropriate circumstances. However, relationships can be significantly affected if the immediate family discovers that the parents were favoring one child financially. Parents must uncover the following questions to ensure that they are thinking all the possible issues thru.

WHEN SHOULD YOU LET THE SECRET OUT?

There are two types of financial support: minor and major. Minor support is generally an isolated case, which is temporary and sensitive. The sensitive nature of the situation is the main reason why you should keep the issue to yourselves. Now, let us focus on the latter. Major support can impact the entire family’s future. Disclosing the issue is necessary if you anticipate that the other siblings will have to chip in once you are no longer able to support the financial favorite.

WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS?

I can only imagine how much pain you are in once you see your child suffering from a financial crisis. Wanting to fix things for him or her is natural. It may be tempting to favor one over the other at times.

Explaining the situation to your family is an opportunity to clear the air. But, explaining your side may not guarantee that your other children would agree to your rationale. You must prepare for their diverse reactions after learning about the financial support for a specific sibling. If they consider the financial favorite as an irresponsible sibling, they may not be willing to help.

HOW WILL YOU ENSURE THAT MATTERS WILL BE FAIR?

Say the parents of Wendy thought that she needs extra help in the future because she is currently unmarried with a low-earning profession. They left more money in her inheritance than with the other siblings. After several years, Wendy became a successful lawyer and out-earned the rest.

Circumstances change. No one knows exactly what the future holds. So, consider being equitable when you plan your Last Will.

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Whatever your reason may be, strategically contemplate on how your actions will affect your relationship with your children as well as the relationship between them. Supporting one child financially is acceptable – to a certain extent.

Sources:  1 & 2

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How To Prepare For The CEO’s Nerve-wrecking Questions

Shifts in the workplace have occurred, along with the screening methods for position placement. It is no secret that preparing for any job interview takes effort and dedication. Moreover, it comes with a considerable amount of stress. Its final phase, the interview with the company’s CEO or President, may heighten the tension. This is the coveted peak of the candidate’s journey.

What shall you do to ace your final interview?

Well, researching on the company’s background is an obvious priority. Familiarize yourself with the company’s offerings (i.e., products or services) and history (i.e., including hierarchy) as well as the mission and vision. Knowing more information about the company enables you to prepare better.

Your next task is to uncover your own self. Understand how your journey was like before you decided to apply for the position. Were you a fresh graduate who stayed with the same company for 3 years? Or, were you not afraid to hop between jobs? The CEO or President will have so much insight based on the decisions that you made along the way.

Aside from these two elements, you must make your way around the tricky interview questions. Know how you will answer the following:

1. Can you describe your learning process?

My background in Psychology and education highlights the fact that everyone learns in a different manner. This is why I am a devoted advocate of individualized instructions. That being said, your answer to this question will show how you will perform given the demands of the available position.

As Stephen Baker (CEO of Attivio) once said: “Having a candidate articulate how they would learn a new topic or skill is a great sign of discipline, organizational skills, and intellectual curiosity.”

2. Why are you here today?

It may sound simple, but the answer entails profound introspection. Be specific when it comes to discussing your career motivations. Ensure that these motivations are in lined with your long-term goals.

This question will help the interviewer judge whether you are there for purely personal reasons or whether you desire to flourish the company’s current state. Gordon Wilson, the CEO of a UK-based software firm, urges that you must find a split between the personal benefits and that of the company’s. He was quoted saying: “if you benefit the enterprise the personal thing will come.”

3. Would you rather be feared or be respected?

If you are applying for a higher position, it is likely that you will be asked about your leadership style. This particular question never fails to catch individuals off-guard, according to Michael Gregoire. Michael is the CEO of an IT management software company called CA Technologies.

There is no distinct “correct” answer for this question. However, you must lean towards the answer that is best suited for the role. For example, it will be better if you are respected than feared in a collaborative workplace environment.

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Consider these tips while you are preparing for your upcoming interview. May the odds be in your favor! 🙂

Sources: 1, 2, 3 & 4

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Unwind With These Insanely Relaxing Activities

After a long day in the office or school, even the calmest of people can blow like a volcano at times. This is why it is important that you focus on de-stressing.

Bid farewell to your work or academic stress during the long weekend by accomplishing one or all of these activities.

HOP INTO THE SHOWER

I understand that you had a heated argument with your partner, but you do not have to swipe your credit card for a much needed “therapy”. Find the inner peace that you crave for by hopping into the shower. Researchers have found that singing in the shower can boost one’s mood. Its effect is as potent as practicing Yoga.

The study showed that a person singing in the shower releases endorphins (i.e., dubbed as happy hormones), which can lower the levels of the stress hormone called cortisol. Tell your partner to get some earplugs as you will let your inner Beyoncé or JJ Lin out!

LIST YOUR DAILY ACHIEVEMENTS

Heighten your sense of satisfaction by writing down all your daily victories. Perhaps you decided to regularly walk to school instead of taking the bus. Doing so kills two birds with a stone! You will not only shed a few pounds, but you will also save money in the process. There are other personal achievements such as helping a stranger cross the road.

No matter how small your deed may seem at the moment, it sparks a step closer to your financial goal.

GRAB A PAINT BRUSH

Workplace stress has various adverse effects on your physical and psychological processes. It may result to poor concentration or even something as serious as substance abuse. Avoid drowning yourself in negativity by making your mind wander away.

For instance, you may let your creative juices flow through art. A recently published study highlighted that art making sessions may reduce one’s cortisol levels. Well, you do not have to worry if you do not have the talent of Picasso. You can reap the benefits of art by purchasing the cheaper alternative to painting classes – a “Paint by Numbers” kit.

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You may get a canvas for as low as S$0.99 at Paintastic Art Craft. Paintastic’s kits come with acrylic paints, manual, brush, and an easel.

Sources: 1, 2, & 3

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Make your time count: Three tips for managing freelance finances

The on-demand economy is booming, driven by ride-sharing, peer-to-peer rental, project-based job platforms and the ease of e-commerce. There are unprecedented income opportunities for freelancers but this work comes with a host of new challenges – many of which are all too familiar for me and my family – like co-mingled and confusing business expenses, quarterly and year-end tax headaches, and a general lack of visibility into your ‘real income’.

My brother and uncle are entrepreneurs, and I’ve seen how they have setup their businesses starting at day one. Having the ability to track earnings, expenses, and taxes automatically are keys to success and always top of mind. Getting better insights into their financials, including net income and tax obligations throughout the year is also increasingly important.

For those who are considering hitting out on their own this year, or the increasingly popular ‘side hustle’, here are my three tips to maximize your financial success.

1)    Don’t mix business and personal. I know firsthand the temptation of co-mingling your personal and business finances, whether it’s using your personal credit card for your freelance expenses or keeping your finances together in one bank account, but there are important legal, tax and financial reasons for keeping your finances separate. Self-employed workers often struggle to keep track of their finances without the luxury of an employer helping them manage tax or CPF contributions, and many have no visibility into their real earnings and income. Separating your finances will help you keep a closer pulse on the health of your business and prevent any unpleasant surprises when you find out how much you owe come tax time. 

2)   Ditch the shoebox. Our research shows that a large number of self-employed and freelancers are keeping track of their finances on paper and a fair proportion of on-demand economy professionals say that difficulty managing finances has the biggest potential to put them out of business. This is deeply concerning to me and points to a major financial literacy gap among this demographic. Part of feeling confident about your freelance business and its future is understanding the more in-depth financial aspects. Using cloud financial management software to track expenses, mileage and invoices all in one place can help you find more tax deductions and save thousands in taxes.

3)    Don’t be afraid to ask for help. Just because you’re self-employed, doesn’t mean that you’re on your own. Working with an accounting professional can help you create the building blocks for your financial future and make sure you’re not missing out on deductions. Building a close relationship with someone you trust early on can foster a value-added relationship, where they aren’t just doing your bookkeeping but giving you strategic insights on how you can set yourself up for long-term success. Whether you’re working towards quitting your day job to freelance fulltime, expanding your client base, or achieving profitability, if you’re direct about your goals and open to guidance, a strategic advisor can be a critical resource to help you realize them.

As someone from a family of entrepreneurs and someone who has spent the greater part of my career working to advance entrepreneurship, I’m thrilled to see a growing number of people taking control of their own future and leveraging the technology available to them to shape their careers and support their families. If you’re one of the many Singaporeans who will enter this economy in 2017, be bold; be diligent; be well-organized. You’ve got this.

Shirin Anne Wan Bio

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Shirin Anne Wan is the Head of Customer Care for QuickBooks Asia Pacific, with more than 15 years of experience in customer service, customer care, operations and service excellence. Based in Singapore, Shirin has served in her role with Intuit as member of the APAC leadership team since 2013. Previously, she worked for Citi in customer experience management.

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Amazing Places To Shop For Preloved Clothing In Singapore

There are some articles of clothing that you do not need to purchase new (e.g., infant clothing). This idea extends during the good and awful times.

Scattered in various cities around the world, it seems that thrift shopping is finally catching its moment here. Flea markets, thrift shops, and online marketplaces are great sources of savings. Start digging up unique finds in these places:

NEW2U THRIFT SHOP

Nestled in the heart of Singapore’s “arts and heritage district” is the gem called New2U Thrift Shop. It is the go-to place for fashionistas in the area who desire to save a couple of bucks. Aside from its accessibility, New2U houses a diverse collection of items. The store has men’s clothing, women’s accessories, children’s toys, and so much more. All these products were donated from various initiatives.

You may be surprised to know that the prices of these items start at S$1. You are sure to snag a flashy bargain here. On top of this, New2U will be having a 50%  off sale soon.

Location: 96 Waterloo Street, Singapore 187967

ONLINE

The Internet is a bountiful chest filled with treasures. There are two primary websites/mobile apps for preloved goods in the local scene. These are namely: Gumtree and Carousell. I have spoken a lot about these two as I tested their services myself.

a. Gumtree – The mechanics of Gumtree is synonymous with Craigslist. However, its layout is easier to navigate. It is a virtual marketplace where you can find children’s clothing, secondhand bags, and almost everything in between. You may use this platform for selling your goods too!

b. Carousell – Carousell lets you buy and sell a wide range of items in less than five minutes! Why don’t you give it a shot?

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SINGAPORE REALLY FREE MARKET

Whether you want to believe it or not, an open market exists in Singapore. Singapore Really Free Market promotes community sharing by presenting their items at no cost. You read that right! You are welcome to get pieces that you what without registration fees or other costs.

As a friendly reminder, tackle the situation with restraint. Do not hog everything as some people may need it more than you. Follow Singapore Really Free Market on Facebook for the details on their next flea.

How will you rock your secondhand clothing in style? Here it from the fruitful speech of the American designer Jessi Arrington. Spoiler alert! She packed nothing for TEDActive but seven pairs of undergarments.

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