12 personal money management life lessons to live by

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While we were searching for good reads, we came across Cary Siegel’s “Why Didn’t They Teach Me This in School?: 99 Personal Money Management Principles to Live By”. We’re not even halfway done with the book but already learning so much from the retired business executive.

Here are 12 personal money management life lessons adapted from the book.

#1: Marry someone who has good financial habits
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If you’re already married, you might agree that money is the top reason why couples fight. It could be very much due to a non-full disclosure during the dating process. Singles planning to tie the knot should learn how to facilitate money conversations to identify each other’s financial habits.

Here are some crucial questions you can ask:

  • How much debt do you have? 
  • At what age do you want to retire?
  • Do you want to have kids? If so, how many and how soon?
  • What is an ideal amount for an emergency fund?
  • Are we ready to leave the workforce to be a full-time parent? If yes, which one of us and for how long?
#2: Stay married to the same person
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According to Singapore Legal Advice, divorce fees may cost up to S$3,500 for simplified uncontested divorces and S$10,000 to S$35,000 for contested divorces. Let’s not forget about pre-divorce payments, alimony, and child support charges. Need we say more?

#3: Know the cost of raising kids
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The obvious expenditures include education, healthcare, clothing, and food. Other costs include moving to a larger HDB flat and getting a new car to shuttle them to school and enrichment classes.

Prudential Singapore has examined various costs involved in the parenting journey. From pregnancy to childbirth and education to recreation, you must plan your finances for the long road ahead.

#4: Buy only when you can afford it
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When you don’t heed this principle, you will find yourself on a downward spiral to possible bankruptcy. Live below your means, and you will find extra cash to save and invest at the end of the month.

#5: Take care of your stuff
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By stuff, we mean the things you own. It could be your white shirt, your latest mobile device, or even your car. When you learn how to take care of your stuff, you will find them lasting longer over time and requiring fewer repairs or replacements. This equates to more savings!

We wrote an article several months ago with tips to help you apply basic maintenance to your electronic gadgets to help them last longer. Click through the link if you’re keen to find out more details on battery inspection, data clearance, and more.

#6: Build lasting friendships
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One of the greatest gifts on earth is connecting and learning from people from all walks of life. Whether your secondary school classmates or polytechnic school friends are working within the financial sector or not, there are still personal money management experiences you can tap on from them.

#7: Take away more by giving more
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This applies to your career in the early stages. Do you believe that you take away more from your company by giving more? The extra time and effort you’re donating to a work project can return tenfold because you gain valuable skills, knowledge, and experience by doing. Think of it as getting paid to learn!

With that said, those who are forced to work extra hours, make sure your employer is compliant with the Ministry of Manpower’s (MOM) practices. Click here for some FAQs relating to overtime work and rest days.

#8: Spend an hour per week learning about personal finance
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There are tons of free resources online, and a quick Google search can reveal the top-ranking ones. The Straits Times also has an “invest” section you can take advantage of if you’re a subscriber. Don’t underestimate the little hour you spend a week because it’s significant when it adds up over the years.

#9: Enjoy the slow journey to wealth
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Not all millionaires are made overnight. Do a quick search, and you will probably come across several rags-to-riches stories that will inspire you.

Please note that you don’t have to be exactly like any of the high profiles out there because everyone has their set of money management principles. Find your own and be comfortable in your unique journey to wealth.

#10: Pen down attainable short-term financial goals
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Short-term financial goals refer to your quarterly plans or annual ones. This could include the exact amounts for savings and investments. You can also note down personal reward amounts if you’re expecting big purchases. Remember to review your goals frequently and spot the hits and misses.

#11: Set realistic long-term financial goals
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When you have your short-term plans ready, it’s good to spend some time setting realistic long-term financial goals. If you like it, you may call it “the big picture” or “a bird’s eye view”. Long-term goals could mean you look far ahead in 5 years, 15 years, or even more.

Here’s a look at the author’s long-term financial goals when he was 25:

  • Buy my next car with cash (within 5 years).
  • Pay off all college loans by the age of 30.
  • Own a home by 35.
  • Attain a net worth of $1 million by the age of 40.
  • Own a beach property by age 45.
  • Retire by the age of 50.
#12: Develop a simple net worth statement
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There are online resources available to help you find out your net worth. It’s nothing too difficult to understand. For example, MoneySense has a net worth calculator you can use. All you have to do is input your total assets and total liabilities and let the webpage work its magic.

So what are your thoughts on a peek at Siegel’s “Why Didn’t They Teach Me This in School?: 99 Personal Money Management Principles to Live By”?

Let us know if you want more insights from his book, and we will prepare them in the coming weeks. If not, you can also grab a copy yourself and be enriched with more personal money management principles to live by. Happy reading!

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4 Entertaining Money Activities For Young Adults

Whether you admit it or not, managing money sounds like a hefty task. Pouring elements of entertainment can may get your attention. On that note, here are some money-related games that you must try.

#1: MONOPOLY

This list won’t be complete without Monopoly! I remember playing this board game as a child. At first, it was simply a way to kill boredom. Little did I know that I can develop purchasing strategies and other financial skills while playing. Put a spin to this classic game by altering some rules. For instance, you may maintain a record of each payment or deposit in the register. Then, each player will start with a mortgaged property. You must pay off the mortgages with your income. This will enable the players to learn more about the dynamics of loans.

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#2: MARKET, MARKET

This exciting game shall simulate what is like to shop on a supermarket at varying levels of budget. Each player will be given a scenario, which defines the family size and the amount of money available for grocery shopping. Then, the players shall visit the nearby grocery to write down the items that they intend to “buy”. The player with the most items within a given budget wins!

#3: LOAN MASTER

If you are interested in brushing your borrowing skills then, this loan application game called Loan Master is suitable for you. The game is controlled by a facilitator. The facilitator starts with dividing the participants into two groups – the consumers and the lenders. The former will be assigned to specific incomes and expenses. They must plan for their budgets and include reasons for borrowing money such as medical or travel fees. The latter, on the other hand, includes different types of lenders such as bankers and loan sharks.

“To loan or not to loan?” is the question that the consumers must answer throughout the game. They must learn to decide whether they shall commit to a loan application or not.

#4: SIMPLE SAVER

Young adults must realize that growing one’s savings is faster when money is put in an interest earning account. Highlight the differences between saving with and without compound interest by playing the Simple Saver game. Begin by grabbing a pen, paper, calculator, and a partner. Each participant will calculate his weekly savings for a year.

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Participant A is the Simple Saver who earns no interest. While, Participant B is the Super Saver who earns a 5% interest compounded daily. See the difference!

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Stop Procrastinating And Start Accomplishing Goal$

One of the greatest English novelists, Charles Dickens, encapsulated the unpleasant prowess of procrastination. His advice was “to never do tomorrow what you can do today. Procrastination is the thief of time.” Procrastination feeds into your weakness by following immediate gratification.

You are aware that it affects some areas of your life such as being late for a meeting or missing the billing deadline. However, you might not realize that constantly avoiding responsibilities can cost you money. Start changing your ways! It may seem trivial now, but keeping your financial goals on hold will affect your long-term savings plan.

LEARN TO ACCEPT YOUR BOUNDS

“I do not feel like doing it right now!”
“I will be more prepared tomorrow.”

How often have you used these excuses to put off the tasks that you can easily accomplish today? For some people, avoiding the difficult tasks by making excuses became a form of coping (i.e., an unhealthy response). It is time to face the music! You will never be fully ready to tackle your financial goals.

The best thing that you can do right now is to examine your financial situation. Identify the amount of cash that comes in and goes out. You may either download money tracker apps or seek the help of the professionals.

CONSIDER THE PRESENT TIME

A study from the University of Chicago found that participants were more likely to initiate action if they view that the task happens at the present. Apply this thought by determining what phase you are on.

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It is easier to track your tasks by making a simple “to-do list” that even includes the tasks you are avoiding to pursue. Then, write the deadlines together with every task. Even if the deadlines you set are sooner that necessary, it will help your cause.

BREAK IT DOWN INTO SMALL CHUNKS

One of the reasons why individuals put goals aside is its intimidating and overwhelming nature. Listing vague or huge goals can immediately discourage you. Breaking down your financial goals into action items is a good idea. Make these items realistic, manageable, and concrete.

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For instance, you aim to make S$2,000 by Christmas instead of saying that you envision having S$500,000 by retirement. Set up a reward system after you finish an action item.

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How Married Couples Can Deal With Huge Salary Gaps

Whether you want to admit it or not, income plays an integral part in the society’s perception of your worth and success. Fusing the the topic of finances to relationships makes things more complicated.

To some degree, your paycheck determines your role in a romantic relationship. An imbalance is created when your spouse earns more than you or the other way around. It is believed that the person who has a higher salary has increased options and financial freedom. Nonetheless, you must address the huge salary gap between you and your partner.

Here are just some tips to help you deal with your current situation:

COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY

Practicing open communication is one of the best ways to resolve issues in marriage (or any romantic relationship). If you are frustrated with your spouse because he or she is not making an effort to find a new job then, talk about it. If you feel guilty for spending more money than your spouse then, talk about it.

Start your financial discussion in a loving manner without accusing the other of anything. You are a family. You should not treat this like a heated battle or a boiling competition. The end goal is to help each other out.

ESTABLISH A BUDGET

Imagine taking a long ride in an unfamiliar place. Your journey can take you into different directions. To create a distinct path, you must follow a map. The same idea applies to your finances. To create a distinct path to your financial goal, you must set a budget.

Establishing a budget lets you allocate a specific amount to each member of the family. Also, you will be able to determine each other’s spending habits. Beginners in budgeting are recommended to use the envelope system.

RESPECT ONE’S ABILITY TO EARN

Before I went to bed, I came across a online discussion at Reddit. The thread surrounded the issue of having any significant achievement gaps between couples. Interestingly, these couples live in harmony.Reddit user pecrh001‘s story caught my attention.

“I have 2 degrees and work as a lawyer. My husband never finished uni but has a job that he loves. He’s a great father and husband. It doesn’t really matter that I earn more than him because it’s all just family money. We’re both working hard and supporting each other and our kids.”

Finding someone who respects you as a person and your ability to earn is more important than the degree that you are holding. Being successful on paper does not translate to your character. Each other’s money is valuable. Forget keeping score!

GIVE AND TAKE

Another important practice that the Reddit thread highlighted is the balance between the two individuals. You must have the chance to give and take. Reddit user The_Superbus illustrated this by posting:

“I worked two jobs while she was in medical school and one job while she was in residency. Now I work no jobs while she is an attending. She likes the fact that I do most of the work around the house so she doesn’t have to. I like the fact that I haven’t had to go to work for the last few years. It also lets us raise our own kid without relying on daycare for 9 hours a day, which is nice.”

EMPLOY A REWARD SYSTEM

After months and months of hard work, you may feel exhausted and overwhelmed. Break the cycle by motivating with reasonable rewards. For instance, you may go to a fancy dinner when your money exceed your budget or when you achieve a financial goal.

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Rewarding each other is a way to remind yourselves that the money you make belongs to the both of you.

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Small Financial Achievements That You Should Be Proud Of

It comes as no surprise that many Singaporeans immediately turn to social media to share their achievements. Facebook and Twitter “walls” are bombarded with celebratory posts and pictures. If you feel that you have nothing worthy to share, think again! Our lives are full of achievements on a smaller scale.

Take these humble financial achievements into consideration:

SETTING UP A SUFFICIENT EMERGENCY FUND

If you are done building your emergency fund then, I am proud of you!

An emergency fund is a safety net that will cushion emergency expenses against high interest debts and bankruptcy. It is not entirely for you as you can use it to provide for your family members who are in need. The certain amount depends on your current situation. For instance, a married couple can merge their contributions and divide it into half. While, unwed individuals must cover at least half a year to stay afloat.

According to a Bankrate.com poll, participants from the younger generation did not appear to be less inclined to build their emergency funds than their senior counterparts. This goes to show that more people are opening up to the idea of shielding their future. Saving up while you are young will benefit you because time is on your side.

DEVELOPING THE HABIT OF TRACKING YOUR SPENDING

If you religiously track your spending, you must keep it up!

Noting down your daily or weekly expenses is a tedious chore, but it can help you manage your wealth efficiently. The primary reason why you need to do this is to create financial awareness. You need to know where your money is going in order to change your unhealthy spending habits. It is as simple as minimizing the income wastage.

Furthermore, it allows you to see if your spending habits match your financial priorities. Make sure to spend within your means.

ORGANIZING YOUR MONTHLY BILLS

If you are on top or ahead of your monthly bills then, you are doing your credit score a favor!

Organizing your bills goes hand in hand with the above bullet. This may either be done digitally or manually. Choose to scan your bills after you have received them and after they are paid. Store these papers in a secured hiding spot. Alternatively, you may save the scanned documents in a designated folder on your computer.

To make sure that you never miss a deadline, you may set up an auto-pay service within the companies that you pay bills to.

CONQUERING ALL THE ADDITIONAL FEES

You are fed up with the additional fees and made some adjustments with your lifestyle. I salute this action!

Being careless with your finances is forgivable in your early 20’s when you are not fully equipped with the financial knowledge and resources. As soon as you move forward in your life, you must aim to pay for what you will actually use.

For instance, it may seem insignificant to incur extra fees for withdrawing cash from an ATM that is not from your bank. However, walking a few blocks to find the right machine can save you at least S$5 (that can purchase you a meal from Kopitiam). Make simple alterations in your lifestyle in order to avoid additional fees.

PURCHASING WHAT YOU SAVED UP FOR

Congratulations! You did not give in to the temptation of swiping your credit card to complete the purchase. Instead, you eliminated unnecessary expenses and set aside cash for weeks. There is something satisfying about finally getting an item that you spent a lot of time saving for. Savor this positive feeling.

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Acknowledging seemingly small victories helps you to picture a progress in your financial journey. Psychologically, it elicits positive emotions and perceptions. The more individuals experience the sense of progress, the more likely they will be motivated and productive in the long run.

Notice these humble achievements and be proud of yourself!

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