Do’s And Don’ts When Loaning Your Money To Family And Friends

Family gatherings and friendly reunions can be less awkward if you follow these tips:

DO FIGURE OUT THE WEIGHT OF REPAYMENTS

A friend or a family member asked for financial help from you instead of loaning from a credible financial institution. Before anything else, you must ask yourself about how important it is for a person to repay you. Are prompt payments necessary or will intermittent payments work?

Keep in mind that if an individual approaches you, it is typically due to weaker credit history. This means that there is a risk of not receiving the repayment. You must figure out the weight of repayments earlier on before emotions get in the way.

DO NOT EXPECT FOR ANYTHING IN RETURN

When you do good deeds for others, it best to not expect anything in return. There is nothing wrong with earning the cash you previously had. However, you may feel disappointment if you are expecting more than what you have agreed upon.

Reciprocity is not a part of everybody’s values. This is why it is unfair to place personal expectations on unsuspecting family members or friends. This statement does not only apply to loans.

DO GET EVERYTHING IN WRITING

If you are releasing a relatively large sum of money or if you are strict on full repayment then, you must get everything in writing. Make an agreement that states the terms of the loan. This agreement is called a promissory note. Have the promissory note signed by both parties and and a lawyer (if possible). This will ensure that pursuit of legal actions when necessary.

You may also document the entire process before handing over the money.

DO NOT BE TERRIFIED TO SAY “NO!”

Your hard-earned money belongs to you and you are in charge of it. If you do not feel comfortable in lending money to a friend or a family member then, be assertive. Genuinely say that you cannot loan the money at the moment due to your financial responsibilities. Discuss the matter in a mature manner.

People who care about you will understand. If they take it against you, you may be better off without them.

DO OFFER GENTLE REMINDERS

All was said and done. To approach the situation in a warmer light in respect to your relationship with the borrow, offer gentle reminders instead of asking direct questions. You are not in the business of interrogating or threatening people about repayment. Instead, you want to cultivate an smoother discussion.

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Ultimate Guide To Handling Credit Card Debt

The credit card is one of the most powerful tools of our nation’s consumers. With that power comes great responsibility. Financial problems can occur if you are missing your credit card bills’ deadlines, constantly transferring balances, and paying your primary card debt with a supplementary card.

In Singapore, over 9 million credit cards were issued as of November 2015. The credit card debt of these cards, worth over S$5 billion, are in the form of balances rolled over to the next statements. Shocking and scary at the same time, is it not?

This is why handling your debts is vital to personal finance. May this tips help keep you on track:

1. DETERMINE THE BALANCES AND INTEREST RATES

The first step in taking control of your credit card debt is understanding how much you really owe on each of your cards. Write down the balances and interest rates for each card. If the interest rate is above 10% then you must transfer this balance to the lowest “interest giving” account. This way, you will be able to pay off the balance at an interest rate you can afford.

2. REQUEST A CREDIT REPORT

Request for your credit card report/s to assess the total amount of debt you owe as well as how bad the situation is. A credit report has the records of your payment history, credit facilities, late payments, bankruptcies, and defaults.

If you saw some inconsistencies or problems on your credit report, call the various authorities to fix the issues. Remember that you are able to repair any past mistakes sighted on your credit report.

3. CONSIDER A DEBT REPAYMENT PLAN

Be honest about your situation to your bank and discuss if you can convert your outstanding balances and unsecured loans into a debt repayment plan. To ease your burden, the debt repayment plan allows you to repay your credit card debt by installments. Pay the debts with higher interest rates first followed by those with lower interest rates but, watch out for penalties.

4. PAY MORE THAN THE MINIMUM

Making the lowest possible payment leads to more interest and time spent in debt. Pay more than the minimum requirement in order to get rid of these dilemmas.

For instance: If the outstanding balance on your card is S$2,000 and its interest rate is 18%, you are required to pay a minimum of 2% of your balance each month. Paying the minimum of S$40/month means that it would take you more than 5 years to pay off your debt in full. During that time, you paid an additional of over S$4,000 in interest. If you increased your payment even slightly, you can get rid of your debt in no time!

5. SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP

If the above options sound confusing and unattainable, it is time to battle your debt with the experts. Luckily, there are a number of organizations and individuals that are qualified to give you support to finally get rid of your financial problems. Start by approaching the Credit Counselling Singapore through ccs.org.sg.

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Should You Lend Money To Your Significant Other?

Lending money to your lover is a tricky business. You may be in a position where trust is completely present but, financial debts can pull you apart. An otherwise happy, supportive, and healthy relationship can come to an end if the money you borrowed is left unpaid.

With the exclusion of married couples, here are the things you must consider if you are thinking of lending your boyfriend or girlfriend money…

OBSERVE YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER

As societal norms dictate, lending your money to your fiancé or your spouse is acceptable as you handle payments together. If you are not on that stage yet, you must make a decision with your head and not your heart. Observe the actions of your boyfriend or girlfriend carefully and compare it against your preferences. Opt for someone who is financially stable and fiscally responsible. This does not mean that you are a gold digger rather it shows your perceptive nature.

For instance, your boyfriend borrows money from you in order to pay the bills because he spent his salary on the new game console. Are you going to lend him the money knowing he might not be able to give it back? Can he be able to handle greater financial issues as they arise? Think about it.

MAKE IT A PRESENT

If the amount is relatively small, consider it as a gift that you do not expect back. Do not lend an amount unless you are able to accept the fact that you may never see it again. That is always a possibility and you do not want to ruin your loving relationship with a “couple of bucks unpaid”!

EXAMINE YOUR FINANCES

Before anything else, make sure you can afford to lend and are not in debt. Just because you love your significant, does not mean that you are encouraged to loan him or her money despite being stuck with debt. Do not put your financial future on a downward slope just because your partner cannot manage his or her money too.

PUT AN INTEREST TO IT

When lending money for bigger things such as “buying a motorcycle”, you are bound to get paid for the full amount for a long period of time. For this, you need to make a signed contract that lay outs the amount of money borrowed, the interest rate, and the date/s of repayment.

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Chances are, your partner is asking for your help to avoid high interests offered by the banks. Consider having your partner match your savings account interest rate instead.

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Newbie’s Guide To The Dynamics Of Debt And Credit

DEFINITION

Before anything else, we must define two terms: debt and credit. Debt is the amount borrowed by one party (e.g., corporations or individuals) from another (e.g., banks). While Credit is the lawful agreement in which a borrower receives something of value today and agrees to repay later on in the future, usually with interest. Simply, when you use your credit card, you create debt. Debt here is the result from your ability to borrow – from your credit.

Now that you know the definitions and the differences between these two terms, you must discover the pros and cons of using credit as well as the 3 C’s of worthiness. All these are according to the Credit Bureau Singapore. Credit Bureau Singapore was set up in lined with the Monetary Authority of Singapore’s vision to enhance the public’s risk management abilities.

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PROS AND CONS OF USING CREDIT

The pros and cons of using credit or credit card are plain and straightforward.

Pros

Being able to buy what you need right away

Not having to carry cash

Automatic record of purchases

More convenient than cheques

Cons

Interest especially for items of higher cost

Have additional fees

Financial difficulties may arise

Elevation in impulse purchases may occur

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3 C’S OF WORTHINESS

Before swimming in a pile of credit, know if you are worthy to take the plunge by asking yourself a set of questions.

1. Character (Are you the type of person who will repay his or her debt?)

Does your credit history show that you are honest and reliable in paying debts?

Do you pay bills on time? Do you have a good credit score/report?

Can you provide a couple of character references?

How long have you been at your present occupation?

How long have you lived at your present home?

2. Capacity (Are you able to repay the debt?)

Is your job income enough to support your credit usage?

Is your job stable and steady?

How much is your salary?

How many loan payments do you have in total?

What are your current debts?

How many people are dependent on you?

3. Capital (Do you have back-up if you cannot repay the debt?)

Do you have a savings account?

Do you have various investments to use as a collateral?

Can you enumerate the properties that you own to help secure loans?

What other valuable assets do you have that could be used to repay debts?

It is essential to know all these to assess whether you are truly fit to apply for a credit card or loan. Furthermore, you may use the information to guide you in your responsibilities as a borrower. 🙂

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Marriage With Credit: ‘Till Debt Do We Part?

Whether you like it or not, along with your marital vows comes the union of your finances. Your partner’s financial habits can either boost or ruin your financial future especially if he or she has a pile of debt. One’s credit history can affect several facets of your life such as loan eligibility, loan rates, and job applications. This is why it is important to openly discuss about your credit history and to plan your future finances together.

Here are some steps you may take…

1. HAVE A TRANSPARENT DISCUSSION

To prevent unforeseen monetary issues, understand each other’s view by explicitly discussing your differences on financial issues. For example, if your partner is a saver then, he or she may view money as an important currency that shall not be wasted.

Then, for honesty’s sake, show a copy of each other’s credit report. Know what your debt and income are actually worth so that you can realistically plan on how to pay for the remaining debt. Your partner’s lack of credit history will reflect on your credit score if you combine accounts.

2. PRACTICE THE ART OF MINDFULNESS

Gone are the days when Mindfulness is practiced solely for meditation. You heard that right! Actively paying attention to the present situation can affect your finances. As you are aware of what is happening in the present, you can make better decisions about money no matter how important it is. For instance, you will keep your credit score healthy because you are aware of the billing schedules. Also, having a present mind will allow you to be vigilant in checking whether the statement breakdown (e.g., phone bill’s data usage) is accurate.

3. LIMIT THE USE OF CREDIT CARD/S

It takes no genius to conclude that overusing your credit card will jumpstart your credit. So, if you cannot say farewell to the plastic card, you might as well limit your usage. As much as possible, keep your usage to a minimum, 25% below your credit limit is a good start. Then, pay off the balance monthly. Examine your progress together as you end the month.

Related Article: How A Couple Paid S$36K Worth of Debt In Just 6 Months

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Image Credits: Gareth Williams via Flickr with Creative Commons License

May these simple steps pave way for a happy and credit-free marriage! 🙂

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