How To Create Abundance In Your Life

In observation of quarantine or social distancing, I joined a Meditation group. This group highlighted the importance of visualizing abundance in your life. Abundance, according to the Cambridge dictionary, can be defined as a situation in which there is more than enough of something. Your perception of abundance depends on your currency. Is owning several cars your definition of abundance? Or, perhaps abundance comes from being able to provide for your family?

Bringing abundance into your life is more than a game of chance. Instead, it is about creating the life you desire. Here are some guidelines for actively creating abundance.

#1: START WITH GRATITUDE

Begin the day with thanksgiving. Be thankful for all the blessing you already have and the simple acts of kindness that you receive on a daily basis. The next challenge is for you to produce.

Produce more ideas and more ways to increase your income. Being able to produce more allows you to share what you have to others. This fruitfulness will bless your family and your community. Abundance will start to come as soon as you become more productive.

#2: LEARN TO VISUALIZE

A grateful heart is able to envision an abundant life. Every great achievement begins with a dream in mind. Dare to dream and make it possible. Free yourself from the negative thinking and feedback that will weigh you down.

If you dream to travel with your family before the year ends, make it so. Take this time in quarantine as a way to save more money and fulfill your goals.

#3: ALTER YOUR MINDSET

There is a book that differentiates the way rich people and poor people think. Rich people live in a world of abundance. While, poor people live in a world of limitation. Whether it happens by chance or by hard work, rich people understand that creativity and willingness to be open can lead to a life of abundance. Having the right mindset will lead you to see opportunities that you were once ignoring.

In contrast, poor people think there is not enough to go around in the world. Fear-based mindset may be deeply rooted in their past experiences. Do you share the same ideals?

#4: COMMIT TO ACTION

Once you have planned for your abundant future and you have chosen a positive mindset, you must commit to living your dreams. What must you do to achieve the life you desire? Shall you expand your network or shall you try new hobbies?

Notice the opportunities that come along. Your only limitations are your consciousness, which is quickly expanding. Whatever you want quickly becomes yours because you see what most people do not.

#5: RESPECT YOUR MONEY

Do you disrespect your money by overspending or by not appreciating what you have? Do you often think that your current business strategies do not work out for you? Your financial block stems from your energy block.

Remember that you attract what your energy releases. Create abundance by cleaning up your wallet, arranging your business files, and perceiving an energetic connection between your you and your finances.

#6: GIVE MORE MONEY

Lastly, wanting more for others cradles the energy of abundance. It feels good to want more for others than to bring them down. This is especially true during times of crisis. When you genuinely want to help others, they will respond in kindness.

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This means that you have to eliminate your tendency of comparing yourself to others. Instead, you must come from a place of love and support. Things are healthier that way!

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5 Praiseworthy Qualities Of A Leader

Leaders shape our communities, organizations, and nations. The global pandemic that occupies our lives now has shown some of the best and worst practices of leaders across the world. We need good leaders to guide us and to help us make large-scale decisions that will influence the quality of our lives.

That being said, here are some of the most commendable qualities that a number of leaders have.

#1: RESILIENCE

“People are afraid, and when people are afraid, when their pie is shrinking, they look for somebody to hate. They look for somebody to blame. And a real leader speaks to anxiety and to fear and allays those fears, assuages anxiety.”

-Henry Louis Gates, former leader of the African and American Research Institute at Harvard University

As you embrace the huge responsibility of leading a pack, you will encounter different adversities a long the way. It is up to you to become resourceful in solving each problem that comes your way. A resilient leader is a person who sees failures as temporary setbacks, which they can recover from. Pliant like a bamboo, a resilient leader stands still in the test of time.

#2: TRANSPARENCY

“Great leaders have the uncanny ability of not letting rumors spread by being open and transparent and embracing solutions not problems. If an employee is frustrated with customer, they make you put that negative energy into coming up with a solution. If coworkers have a rift, rather than nurturing the gossip the leader makes you get over it and fix the issue.”

-Kevin Sides, CMO of ShipMonk

Nothing will make people more agreeable or less defensive than you being humble when admitting your own mistakes. Having reasonable and stable personal and professional relationships relies on you taking the responsibility for your own actions. You must be transparent, especially when it comes to your mistakes. A transparent leader acknowledges his or her actions and apologizes whenever necessary.

#3: EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE (EQ)

“If you are tuned out of your own emotions, you will be poor at reading them in other people.”

-Daniel Goleman, renowned author and science journalist

Your IQ can only secure you the position, your EQ will let you thrive. Emotional intelligence helps you boost your self-awareness, self-control, motivation, empathy, and social skills. It is finding the balance within yourself and the chemistry in others. A leader with a high EQ can relate to his or her employees more and can solve the obstacles without emotional roadblocks.

#4: EMPATHY

“Empathy not only allows great leaders to understand their employees and their customers better, but it also is known to enhance pro-social (aka helping) behaviors. Because of this, empathy enables leaders to address issues faster and with more precision, and it makes them more flexible to respond to an ever-changing business environment.”

-Jeff Kear, founder of Planning Pod

Empathy is part of the EQ. It is the ability to put yourself in another person’s shoe (idiomatically speaking). Empathy is correlated with job performance. People who show more empathy towards others are viewed to be better leaders. Fortunately, empathy can be learned and cultivated in the workplace. It is up to you to transform your environment.

#5: RESPECT

“Respect is how to treat everyone, not just those you want to impress.”

-Richard Branson, founder of the Virgin Group

Treating people with respect is one of the most important things that a leader can do. Respect will ease the tensions, help solve conflicts, create trusts, and improve efficiency. After all, respect begets respect.

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While successful leaders may exhibit these qualities to varying degrees, all good leaders reap the advantages of these characteristics.

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How To Stretch Your Dollar When Decorating Your Flat

With the rising real estate prices and fast-paced lifestyle, people opt to live in HDB flats or apartments. Individuals find it convenient to live in these types of residences given that these are easily accessible to workplaces and commercial areas, offers facilities and amenities, and provides better security. Despite all these advantages, living in a flat means having to deal with a limited space in comparison to house.

In my quest to find ways to maximize the functionality and design of my space, I tapped my Interior Designer friend. Here are some tips that Interior Designer Krishna L. generously shared to me.

#1: PLAN THE SPACE

Having a small space requires identifying the distribution of areas. It is important to recognize the functions and activities that take place in each zone. Adequate planning makes it easier to know what types of furnishings are needed within the space. This helps save time and money for the owners. Personally, I love watching Never Too Small on YouTube as this channel shows how to plan space sections within micro-apartments.

#2: REMEMBER – LESS IS MORE

Given the space available, it is necessary to make use of the space wisely. Having too many things going on in a small space makes it cramped and chaotic. Avoid overcrowding the space and know which items are essential in order to conserve more space.

#3: ELEVATE FURNISHINGS

One way of giving an illusion of spaciousness is keeping things off the floor. Make furniture pieces and fixtures “float” – opt for sofa and tables with exposed legs and mount shelves on wall – to achieve an illusion of a bigger space. Not only does this make the space larger but also provides a room for additional storage.

#4: INVEST IN MULTI-FUNCTIONAL PIECES

A limited space requires flexibility in terms of utility and functionality. Looking for furniture pieces that provide more than one function can save money and space.

#5: MAXIMIZE VERTICAL SPACE

Condominiums and apartments often less square footage than a traditional residential space. Thus, it is better to take advantage of the walls. Use floor-to-ceiling cabinets or shelves for storage and display, mount wall decors and art or add tall plants to make the room appear larger.

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#6: ADD MIRRORS

It is a well-known fact that mirrors can make a small space appear grander. Mirrors not only give the illusion of a greater square footage but also reflects natural and artificial light, thereby creating an impression of a bigger space.

#7: CONSIDER THE LIGHTING

Natural lighting provides a healthier well-being but also helps open up a room. However, condominiums have limited access to natural light since there are less windows. It can be useful to have a variety of artificial lighting to achieve a great atmosphere and warm ambiance within a space. Lighting placement can either make or break a space, so it must be thoroughly planned.

#8: FIND THE RIGHT COLOR THEME

Colors can influence the way we view spaces – lighter colors reflect light and give an illusion of space, whereas darker colors absorb light and diminish a space. In order to make a room feel larger, it is good to have the right color palette for the floor, wall, and ceiling. This does not necessarily mean limiting your options with an all-white interior; rather, use a color scheme that create cohesion and unity. Choosing monochromatic or neutral colors, for instance, can make the space feel airy, open, and visually bigger. Applying dark or bold color or pattern sparingly to accent wall, furniture, or decors can create depth, contrast, and personality to the space.

#9: CHOOSE THE FLOORING WISELY

Like color schemes, flooring surfaces can greatly impact the size of a space. It is better to avoid using a contrasting color for the flooring. Choose hues for carpets, tiles, and wood flooring that would complement the walls and ceiling to achieve continuity. Light-colored wooden floor planks that are either wide or long can make a space look bigger.

#10: ADD GREENERY

Plants greatly benefits one’s health. Having indoor plants can make the space brighter and lively. Moreover, it gardening is a good hobby to dwell on as you work from home or obey the stay-at-home notice.

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Inexpensive At-Home Activities You Can Enjoy With Your Child

Kicking off the month of April is the new educational structure advised by Education Minister Ong Ye Kung. Last Friday, he highlighted that all schools will conduct one day of home-based learning in light of the recent spike in COVID-19 cases in Singapore. This re-structuring will help prepare the parents and students if more days of home-based learning will be necessary.

Primary schools will conduct home-based learning o Wednesdays, Secondary schools will apply ths on Thursdays. The rest of the institutes will be having it on Fridays. These social distancing efforts are on top of the enrichment and tuition centers’ closure. The question on the parents’ minds now is: “What will the children do all day?”

The key to extending the learning at home is to make a routine. Students are used to following a schedule. Mimic this blueprint by creating a distinct schedule to help the continuous flow of their home-based education day. The goal is to keep your children busy as you tend to other matters.

TIP #1: FOLLOW THE ADVISE OF THE TEACHERS

As teachers will be giving their assignments through emails and other platforms, you may start the day with those modules. Study time may last from 30 minutes to an hour and a half. Allow heavy subjects and academic assignments to be engraved during this block of time.

TIP #2: DEDICATE A BLOCK FOR PLAY

Allow your children to have at least 15 to 30 minutes of time of dedicated child-led play. Provide materials that will cater to their interests and allow them to play. When a child is playing, it stimulates different facets such as imagination, creativity, innovation, and socialization. You may provide a bin filled with educational toys and art materials. Serious learning can take place while having fun.

TIP #3: SCHEDULE A TIME FOR READING

Being at home all day gives you a chance to increase the child’s habit of reading. Gather your books at home or download free books online. Schedule at least 20 minutes of reading time per day to engrave the importance of reading. Remember that this block is the total amount of minutes. You may break it apart throughout the day. In the first half, you may be the only one talking. The adult will read the book aloud for the child. As the day ends, you may let your child to read the same book by himself or herself. Do not worry if your child wants to extend the reading block! Reading is beneficial for your child’s language proficiency and vocabulary expansion.

TIP #4: SPARE SOME TIME FOR GROOMING AND SELF-HELP SKILLS

As an educator, I believe that children learn best through experiences. Let your child experience household chores to learn more about responsibility and self-reliance. Assign 10 to 15 minutes of time for household chores and other self-help activities. Guide your child as they clean their rooms, sweep the floors, wash the dishes, or fold the clothes. They can use these skills as they grow up. More importantly, those are less tasks for you to fill.

TIP #5: ALLOT A BLOCK FOR SCREEN TIME

Whether we admit it or not, technology has been a part of our children’s lives. Hence, it is better to adapt and to limit their usage. Keep your children from “over-indulging” on the screens by having a set time in the schedule for screen time. Ideally adults should limit the children’s use of screen time to two hours per day. For instance, you may allow 30 to 45 minutes of screen time before breakfast and after dinner. Follow through the scheduled time by turning the devices and appliances off afterwards. If the house feels too quiet, turn on some delightful music instead.

TIP #6: ALLOW YOUR CHILDREN TO MOVE

It is easy to put down toys for free play. However, children enjoy it when you get to bond with them as you facilitate some indoor activities. A great way to entertain your children while practicing educational skills is to schedule some easy indoor activities. You may plan at least 30 minutes of this category before snack time or before dinner time.

Here are some of the ideas for your indoor play:

a. Build A City: Flatten out a box. Draw a round using markers and paint. Add blocks and other toy vehicles to let your child build his or her own city.

b. Backhand Balloon Balance: Challenge your children to balance a balloon on the back of their hand. See how long they can do it before it falls to the ground. Amp up the stakes by putting water inside the balloon.

c. Long Jump: Put some lines of masking tape or colored electric tape on the floor. Make 6 separate lines of tape, which are one foot apart. Label the first line as the “Starting” line. See how many lines your children can jump over. Have them beat their best score each round. You may even let them jump backwards!

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May you entertain your children while staying safe! 🙂

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Singaporeans Get Financial Support And Frozen Government Loans Amid COVID-19 Pandemic

As you may know, many establishments and livelihoods have been put on hold due to the Coronavirus widespread. Floating in limbo led many Singaporeans to worry about their finances, particularly their bills and household expenses. This level of uncertainty is not limited to our country. It happens all over the world! Moreover, it takes a toll on developing countries whose majority relies on daily salaries and meal allowances to survive.

The Singaporean government has put a plan into place. Last Thursday, Deputy Prime Minister Heng Swee Keat said that they “will put more cash in the hands of all families to help them cope”. The cash payouts announced in Budget 2020 will be tripled!

All adult Singaporeans will receive $300, $600, or $900 depending on their income. The amount for parents with at least one Singaporean child aged 20 and younger will receive up to $300 as compared to $100 before. The Workfare Special Payment for lower-income workers will also be increased to $3,000 in cash.

Lastly, the $100 PAssion Card top-up for seniors will be given in cash instead. They will get their money directly in their bank accounts. “This is to avoid the need to queue at top-up stations during this period,” he said.

In addition to supplementary budget, the Government will freeze all fees and charges for its services for one year from April 1. Late payment charges on Housing Board mortgages will be suspended for three months. Graduates who took up Government loans for their university or polytechnic studies will receive a loan repayment suspension for a year from June 1.

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Deputy Prime Minister Heng Swee Keat also highlighted the importance of self-help groups. Grants for self-help groups will be doubled to $20 million over two years. While, community development councils will get $75 million. As he listed various initiatives on his speech, he said that they will “protect jobs, support our workers, and protect livelihoods”. All these efforts are necessary to help the citizens bounce back during these uncertain times.

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