Do You Have A Financially Toxic Friend?

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Whether you notice it or not, the people whom you interact the most with are likely to shape your financial decisions. Some outcomes are less positive than others. The truth is, you may not be able to change the personalities of the people around. The only thing you can change is your exposure to these people.

Filter out toxic financial relationships by distinguishing these people from the rest:

The Dollar-Pincher

There is a huge difference between prioritizing your spending and conserving because you do not want to spend your wealth! “Dollar-Pinchers” see money as a tool that they must conserve at all cost. They aim to spend a little money as possible (i.e., synonymous to a cheapskate or a miser).

Let us be realistic. Many of us have encountered a friend who seemingly dissolves when the bill arrives. To save you from an embarrassing moment with the waiter and to keep your Dollar-Pincher quiet, you opt for paying his or her share. Doing so entails that you will spend more than your allotted budget.

The Investigator

As the name suggests, the “Investigator” digs deeper into your life to reap information that you would normally share with your trusted financial planner. He or she desires to know how much you made, saved, and spend. You need to be especially careful if the Investigator is a co-worker. You see, this type of friend is least likely to be concerned with your well being. Anything you say may be used against you.

When it comes to painting my future, I am not afraid to test the waters. I have had several occupations and there was one thing that I noticed. My Investigator friend would constantly pry into my professional life. He would ask me how much my current job offer was and how much my monthly salary is. He goes even further by asking if what was offered was higher than my previous job. Needless to say, we are no longer friends.

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The Show-Off

If you are a frequenter of various social media platforms, you probably came across a friend who has a seemingly successful life. The “Show-Off” brags about his or her financial capacity by sharing his or her local and international endeavors. It is especially hard when you are roughly the same age as your friend and you find yourself making comparisons between each other’s progress.

Regularly bombarding yourself with friends who display or tell you how great they are doing with their finances can trigger unhealthy emotional responses. You may start doubting your monetary choices or start feeling depressed with your career. Please realize that you do not need to keep up with the Show-Off! Simply focus on what you are doing right with your finances.

The Wheedler

Be careful! You do not want to be misguided by the “Wheedler”. This type of friend uses flattering words and thoughts to entice you to spend beyond the bounds of your financial capability.

To put things into perspective, let us say that you are shopping with your chum Atiqah. You wanted to buy an expensive dress that you do not really need. Instead of politely suggesting to skip on the dress, Atiqah encourages you to purchase it immediately. She continues to shower you with exaggerated pleasantry until you give in. If you cannot change the Wheedler’s ways, you must only bring the amount of cash that you are willing to spend with him or her.

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It is time to turn the tables around. Search within yourself and examine whether you have been financially toxic to others. Are you willing to change for the better?

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Expert-Approved Ways To Increase Your Financial Intelligence

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Throughout the course of our lives, many of us have experienced unpleasant economic periods. These are characterized by times when money the budget seems to cut short or when money seems to run low. Experiencing these periods every once in a while is acceptable. However, you have to take action if you are constantly living from pay check to paycheck. Boosting your financial intelligence is one way to improve your current circumstance.

Online resources define financial intelligence as the collection of knowledge and skills reaped from understanding personal finance and accounting principles. Why is this important? For starters, applying your financial intelligence to money management will help you reach your monetary goals.

On that note, here are 4 Expert-Approved Ways To Increase Your Financial Intelligence:

BY MAXIMIZING YOUR BUDGET

Managing your finances starts with building a realistic budget. To strengthen said budget, you can either decrease your monthly spending or grow your streams of income. Both of these methods can solve the budget crunch. However, the latter provides longer lasting effects according to bestselling author Robert Kiyosaki. Kiyosaki’s arsenal of financial books includes the “Increase Your Financial IQ” book. The title says it all!

When it comes to budgeting, he stresses that time and money are very crucial assets. He believes that people who are going through rough times should spend less money on unnecessary purchases and more money on productive matters (e.g., self-promotion or continued education). Maximize your budget by prioritizing the important categories.

BY MODIFYING YOUR THINKING

Sometimes, the only person who keeps you from becoming financially successful is you! Your thoughts and beliefs dictate your money decisions. Imagine what will happen to your finances if all your thoughts are clouded by irrational beliefs and negative thoughts. Conquer the darkness by shifting your mindset.

Focus your thoughts on stretching your means and you may eventually find ways to earn more money. As financial coach Cindy Brochu once said: “Getting smarter means thinking smarter!” Let your money-savvy mindset guide you to the decisions that you need to take.

BY IDENTIFYING ESSENTIALS FROM NON-ESSENTIALS

People who are low in financial intelligence experience difficulty in distinguishing between their necessities and momentary “cravings”. For instance, you may see many impulse buyers during the Great Singapore Sale. These shoppers will simply purchase items for the sake of it or for the sake of flashy discounts. Trouble boils when these shoppers use credit cards as their only means of purchase. Piles of debts may rain on their finances for years. If only they had the ability to identify the essentials from the non-essentials!

So, ask yourself whether you could do without it in the future. Do you really need to buy a Prada bag and a humidifier?

BY EXPANDING YOUR KNOWLEDGE

Knowledge fuels your financial power. Robert Kiyosaki believes that the wealth of the person does not purely rely on real estate and other tangible assets. He says that it depends on the information and knowledge you have about money. Simply, financial intelligence makes one rich. Let us put his ideals into perspective. Purchasing a new set of golf clubs will not improve your game, but paying for golf lessons will.

Other ways to expand your knowledge on money include attending local finance seminars, reading informative books (e.g., Intelligent Investor), and downloading financial add-ons (e.g., Mint.com app). These methods are all recommended by Mark Riddix. Mark Riddix is the author of “Your Financial Playbook” and the president of an investment consulting firm.

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I have to be honest! Following the above strategies for a few days will not make you financially intelligent. It does not happen overnight. You need to work on these for the next few years in order to build healthy habits. Doing so will add more order and discipline to your financial life.

Sources: 1, 2, & 3

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5 Habits That Reek “Unprofessionalism” In The Workplace

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Being successful in your field takes constant sacrifices and conscious effort. With all the things that you have invested, do not let these unprofessional habits drag you down.

THE LONE WOLF

Many Singaporeans tend to mind their own business. There is nothing wrong about that as we just value our own privacy. However, it can be harmful if you translate the “lone wolf habit” in a collaborative workplace. The lone wolf habit occurs when you prefer to accomplish tasks on your own rather than doing it swiftly as a team.

Say you are a part of the marketing department. You must communicate with the client as well as you teammates in order to minimize errors and to achieve satisfaction. You will not achieve the client’s vision if you called the shots for everything. Not only does this habit influence your professional reputation, but it may also lower your risk of getting a promotion.

THE INEFFICIENT MULTITASKER

There is a practical reason why the broadened Road Traffic Act includes the utilization of the hand-phone while driving. Under it, motorists caught using any mobile devices while the vehicle is moving will be violating the law. Accident prevention is the practical reason. You see, the act of juggling two or more things can deteriorate your concentration. It is best if you exhaust all your senses into one task at a time. The same idea can be applied in the workplace.

Browsing with your laptop, messaging your friends, or checking your social media during a meeting sends the wrong signal to your boss. It conveys that you are not interested with the important matter at hand. Pay attention instead.

THE MIGHTY BULLY

In 2015, a local article featured a story about a man who suffered from a mental breakdown due to the constant bullying in the workplace. Mr. Kenny Leong was previously shunned by his boss and co-workers due to his physical characteristics (e.g., being soft-spoken and having gentle gestures). In most places that he worked at, he was labelled with terms such as “Chao Ah Gua (slang for effeminate)” or “Woman”. Can you see how the constant exposure to bullying affected him?

Well…Mr. Leong is not alone! Surprisingly, statistics have shown that 1 in 4 Singaporeans have suffered from workplace bullying with the top aggressors being their bosses (62%) and their clients (21%). Unprofessional habits such as name-calling and spreading rumors can cause deterioration in work performance as well as mental distress.

Related Article: How To Deal With The Infectious Workplace Bullies

THE INCREDIBLE HULK

Remaining calm during stressful situations is one of the abilities that you need to master in life. However, it is easier said than done. Not everybody was wired to have the patience of a preschool teacher!

Consumed by stress, you can display unpleasant behaviors ranging from spewing an audible sigh to purposefully hitting a co-worker. These said behaviors may develop a pattern in the long run. Imagine turning into the “Incredible Hulk” whenever you are faced with heated moments. There can only be one end result for your temper outburst – getting fired.

THE DRAMATIC ACTOR

Tear-jerking stories of alcoholism, extramarital affair, or bankruptcy are fascinating twists in movies and television series. But, these problems have no place in the office! Your boss does not need to know about your outstanding student loans. Your co-workers do not have to listen to you while you argue with your spouse on the phone.

Regularly bringing your personal issues in the workplace implies that you have a problem with establishing boundaries. Save the heart pounding drama for your trusted confidants and close family members. Only discuss these matters outside of work.

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What other unprofessional habits are common in the Singaporean workplace, or any workplace for that matter? Feel free to share your thoughts in the section below.

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When Is It Acceptable To Splurge Your Money?

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This may sound odd to you, but there are some instances where shelling out more will actually help your finances in the long run. You read that right! Just because you saw a glistening opportunity for you to save a few bucks, does not mean that you have to take it. You need to consider your priorities and financial goals as well.

EVENT 1: LANDING YOUR DREAM JOB

Congratulations on bagging a coveted job interview in the company of your dreams! The next step is to prepare for the “big day”. If you are aiming to convey your best image to your potential employer, it is alright to splurge on transport. You may be setting yourself into trouble just because you want to squeeze every cent you have on transport.

Let us face it! Bus delays and MRT breakdowns can happen when you least expect it. Furthermore, you are putting yourself at risk of being late as you are unfamiliar with the location. You do not want to arrive looking sweaty and stressed out due to your commuting woes. So, book yourself a comfortable ride through an Uber or a Grab app.

EVENT 2: BRAVING THE WEATHER

I cannot recall how many times I experienced the country’s dichotomous weather cycles. I found myself shielding from the sun’s rays and experiencing moderate rainfall in one day. Singapore’s weather is generally characterized by high humidity and abundant rainfall. In fact, thunderstorms graced the forecast for the next couple of weeks.

Brave the country’s weather by purchasing a sturdy umbrella from an established store. Cheap umbrellas from the street vendors or the bargain stalls tend to break easily. You see, your frequent S$14 purchases will add up eventually!

EVENT 3: GROWING YOUR WEALTH

It is best to seek professional guidance when you are planning to allocate your retirement savings on an investment portfolio. Yes! It may be cheaper to do things on your own or to do pitch in with a fund manager. However, you need to consider spending money on an Independent Asset Manager.

Most fund managers charge a commission of about 2% for supervising your wealth for you. If your entire portfolio is managed in this manner, you are paying commission for the total lifetime value of your assets. Imagine how much money that adds up to!

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Taking the Independent Asset Manager route entails that you will only be paying for his or her hourly fees. You may be shocked to know that said consultation meeting can occur as little as twice a year.

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