Christmas gift ideas under S$30 for kids

Christmas is around the corner! If you’re not on route to a VTL trip this yearend, it’s not too bad to celebrate a cozy Christmas within the safe borders of Singapore.

To completely feel the Christmas vibes, you will want to get your Christmas trees and decorations up and hanging. Families with kids should definitely involve their children in the process! And on the night of Christmas Eve, remember to place your nicely wrapped gifts under the light-filled tree.

If you’ve not gotten your presents for the little ones, take it from our list of Christmas gift ideas under S$30 for kids.

#1: Lego Creative Bag Charm

Lego Creative Bag Charm

Now: S$7.90

Usual Price: S$10.90

This LEGO Creative Bag Charm is a sand-colored 2 x 4 Lego brick with 12 Lego pieces for making creative faces tied to a sturdy metal ring and chain. It can be used to keep keys safe, or can be attached to your kid’s backpack to distinguish theirs from their classmates’! A fantastic Christmas present for children six years old and above who are Lego lovers.

#2: Kinetic Sand Hidden Treasure

Kinetic Sand Hidden Treasure

Now: S$9.99

Usual Price: S$12.99

With the Kinetic Sand Buried Treasure set, children can now hunt for gold at home. Have them find the buried tool that helps to scoop, shovel, and transform the kinetic sand. They might even locate the unique gold coin while searching for the three bronze or silver coins hidden within. The portable treasure chest makes an ideal storage container for the kinetic sand once your kids are done with their playtime. The sand is easily moldable, glides through one’s hands, and never dries out, allowing your children to play over and over again.

#3: 4M Green Science Salt Powered Robot

4M Green Science Salt Powered Robot

Price: S$16.90

This 4M Green Science Salt Powered Robot offers a hands-on learning opportunity that emphasizes the importance of renewable energy sources. It is safe and non-toxic because it is mainly operated by a chemical reaction between saltwater and charcoal. This kit comes with everything your kid needs to build a saltwater-powered robot. It is specially designed for children aged eight and older and comes with a comprehensive user manual.

#4: Usborne Sticker Book & Jigsaw (100pc) Set – Unicorn

Usborne Sticker Book & Jigsaw Set

Now: S$19.90

Usual Price: S$24.90

Usborne Unicorn Sticker Book & Jigsaw Set is a brightly colored 100-piece jigsaw and a 16-page sticker book packaged together in a durable box. The jigsaw puzzle contains 100 pieces for kids to put together and is packed with unicorns to uncover. Apart from unicorns, flowers and other charming creatures can be added to the vibrant themes in the sticker book. It has a variety of enjoyable tasks that aid in the development of key abilities such as visual differentiation and memory recollection. A great way for children to get started with intermediate-level puzzles!

#5: Wall Climbing Car – Met Red

RED5 Wall Climbing Car

Now: S$20

Usual Price: S$49.90

This RED5 Wall Climbing Car attaches to most surfaces via suction, allowing your car-loving kid to play on the wall and even the ceiling. Simply set it on the area you wish to run on, and the vacuum mechanism will take its course. It comes with an infrared remote that allows the user to control it wirelessly. You may either recharge straight from the remote or use the USB charging cord that comes with it. This toy also boasts brilliant LED lamps, enabling an upgraded play experience at night! For kids eight and older, this gift would provide gravity-defying excitement.

#6: Aquarellum Junior Dinosaures (Dinosaurs)

Aquarellum Junior Dinosaures

Price: S$24.90

​​Aquarellum Junior Dinosaurs is a collection of watercolor painting kits with fun concepts. Kids may paint four dinosaurs in different colors and shades with this dinosaur bundle! It’s uncomplicated to use, thanks to distinctive imprinted cards that soak paint in certain areas while repelling it in others, with no need for additional tools or templates. Even kindergarteners are capable of creating exquisite artworks with this set. A wonderful opportunity for your kids to hone their color awareness and unleash their artistic side.

#7: Snakes & Ladders Board Game

Snakes & Ladders Board Game

Price: S$24.90

Djeco’s version of Snakes and Ladders has been refined and redesigned with an arctic twist. To ace the game, remember that ladders will help you move closer to the end of the race, but be careful not to fall through the nets and be left behind. This activity aids in your child’s development of number awareness and basic counting abilities. It’s a fun family or team game to play on Christmas Day!

#8: Rainbow Xylophone & Double-Sided Drum

Rainbow Xylophone

Double-Sided Drum

Price: S$27.94 each

Musical instruments are incredibly beneficial to your child’s development because they help to engage the mind and improve sound recognition. Consider the Rainbow Xylophone and Double-Sided Drum if you’re shopping for musical toys for your toddler or young child. The durable xylophone enables children to recognize colors and musical scales while the adaptable drum allows your little ones to create amazing beats! Use the stick to hit the top surface as well as the ridges on the sides of the drum. Then turn around and strike the wooden-side drum for a differentiated tone.

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What experts have to say to your common queries on ADHD

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ADHD is a term loosely thrown around but it actually refers to attention deficit hyperactivity disorder if you don’t already know.

It’s not just a childhood disorder but a lifelong condition. Dr Lim Boon Leng, a psychiatrist at Gleneagles Medical Centre, shared that about 30% of children would have their symptoms continue into adulthood.

There has been more light shed on ADHD recently via CNA Insider and thus we would like to take this chance to dig deeper. Here are what experts have to say to the public’s common queries on ADHD.

Is ADD the same as ADHD?

According to Dr Bhanu Gupta of the Institute of Mental Health (IMH), the label “attention deficit disorder” (ADD) is a dated phrase for ADHD. ADD was the original diagnosis name for what is now known as ADHD. Presently, inattentive-subtype ADHD may be referred to as ADD too.

How is ADHD diagnosed? What are the signs?

The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5) is a tool used by doctors to detect ADHD. For hasty- and hyper-related behavior problems, there are nine measures, and for attention deficit, there are nine too.

Fiddling a lot, chatting a great deal, dishing out responses before questions end, and disrupting others are all symptoms of hyperactivity and impulsivity. Being easily carried away, having trouble organizing chores, and delaying or hating things that demand prolonged mental effort, such as coursework or writing reports, are all signs of inattention.

Kids must normally meet six or more of the evaluation criteria, while individuals aged 17 and above must meet a minimum of five of them. Children, particularly boys, are more prone to having hyperactive characteristics, according to Lim. However, as children become older, they tend to internalize their restlessness.

Do you advise that I get myself or my child checked?
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Obtaining a clinical diagnosis for adults can be impactful and aids with closure, according to Lim. “Many people with ADHD have gone through a pretty rough time in childhood – they’ve always been criticized, they’ve always been told off and told they’re lazy,” he added.

As per Dr Vicknesan Jeyan Marimuttu, head and senior consultant at KK Women’s and Children’s Hospital’s (KKH) child and adolescent mental wellness service, having a kid assessed can help the family, school, and individual comprehend his or her challenges adequately.

“Often, children may be blamed for being naughty… when in fact the underlying issue is that of ADHD,” he said. “Over a period of time, the mislabelling can result in a sense of helplessness in parents and poor self-esteem in children.”

Where can I go to get a diagnosis at a cheaper rate?

A recommendation from any polyclinic or Community Health Assist Scheme (CHAS) GP clinic (for CHAS cardholders) is required to be shown at IMH as a subsidized patient. But do note that while concessionary patients can enjoy reduced rates, they are likely to wait much longer for a consultation slot than unsubsidized or private patients.

To provide you with a sense of the cost, the first examination at IMH costs S$42 for adult subsidized patients and S$46 for kids and teens. At KKH, qualifying patients are also entitled to reduced rates. Without subsidies, the first appointment with a private specialist can cost up to S$300.

A visit to a psychologist is also an alternative. According to Jean Tan, a clinical psychologist with Cognitive Health Consultancy International, a psychologist will generally give psychological support to assist patients in better controlling their ADHD symptoms. With more psychologists at polyclinics nowadays, you can expect a referral process after seeing the GP.

Can I know what to expect when I go for the initial screening?

Grown-ups will undergo an initial evaluation at IMH, where a complete mental background will be collected, and symptoms of ADHD will be examined, frequently through a designed questionnaire.

As the individual goes through the full examination, which is based on the DSM-5 criteria, Lim remarked that the indicators of ADHD can become prominent. He frequently asks questions in a sequential sequence, going over the patient’s personal history and looking for indicators.

“The approach is very much open-ended, so we don’t lead them into answering whether they have or do not have concentration issues,” he said. “Rather, the approach is more to find out what problems they’re facing, and let them describe it.”

What are the ways to help myself deal with the effects of ADHD?

Gupta noted that most ADHD recommendations advocate medication as the initial method of treatment. But clinical psychologist Tan commented that although medicine can help with restlessness and attentiveness, not all individuals will embrace it. This is where a psychologist can assist patients in understanding ADHD symptoms and how they substantially affect daily life.

“Strategies such as cognitive behavioral therapy can then be developed, to overcome problems such as procrastination, time management, and organizational difficulties.”

Gupta agrees and explains that psychological therapy can help with the behavioral and emotional elements of ADHD, as well as prevalent co-morbidities like anxiety and depression. Many people have benefited from ADHD coaching, although it is costly and not readily accessible.

Is it compulsory to declare my condition to my current or future employer?
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As we come to a close, some of you must be wondering if it’s compulsory to make your condition known to your employer. To that, Lim said, “If you understand your company culture and you know they may not provide you help and may make things difficult… then you’re entitled to keep your condition confidential.”

But Lim said that he has observed numerous organizations make accommodations for employees with ADHD, such as providing a private work area and not pushing them to hot desk.

He did point out, nonetheless, that varied levels of acceptance of psychiatric or psychological problems exist. You will ultimately have to consider whether disclosing your condition will benefit you in any manner.

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Use the 5-step ‘Spiral Method’ as an alternative to Google search

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In this modern-day era, the average person goes straight to the Google search bar to find new information. But do you know that Google may not be the best way to learn new things?

Well, more than half of the information written online is rewritten content. Let’s also not forget about the high marketing spend certain companies are pumping into every month to rank their websites up on the first page of Google.

This is the reason why we would like to introduce to you a five-step approach called the ‘Spiral Method’ to help you gain a new perspective in learning new things. Consider this as an alternative to Google if you would like. 

In short, the ‘Spiral Method’ is made of 15 to 20 meetings with people in your network and their extended connections. At the start, you may not get as much learning data. However, it progresses into something deeper as you advance to your 10th meeting and beyond.

Please also note that we’re not asking you to ditch Google. Google can still act as your supplemental tool and learning partner. Just in case you get conflicting views from the industry experts you’ve spoken to, you can always confirm it with the content on Google search.

Without further ado, let’s show you how the five-step ‘Spiral Method’ works.

#1: Pick your topic and reach out
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When you head to Google, chances are that you already have a topic in mind. If you have a couple of questions in your thinking cap, you may want to pick on the ones that matter and sub-categorize them accordingly.

Next, instead of typing the keywords in your search bar, go to your social media or LinkedIn and take a good look at your connections. You don’t have to pick out 15 people at once because referrals can come into play later. Just select at least five to eight people and then reach out politely, asking for a short 30-minute conversation on your decided topic.

#2: Prioritise big concepts from the get-go

Life often throws us lemons. But the smart people use it to make lemonade with a tinge of sweetness. Depending on who you meet, you may be bombarded with lots of valuable information from the get-go. It’s okay even if you don’t remember down to the exact details.

The idea at the beginning is that you prioritize big theories surrounding your chosen topic. Think of it as the main takeaways from each conversation. At the start, don’t stress yourself over being an expert at the topic you’re researching. At this stage, you’re just trying to be a bit smarter and more informed. You could even tap on keywords that you’ve not heard before and use them as the basis to dig deeper.

#3: Be brave to request referrals
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At the end of every conversation you have with an expert or industry personnel, thank them for their time but don’t leave it at just that. Be brave to ask for referrals so you can turn one connection into other relevant contacts. If you think it might be impolite to reach out to these new contacts personally, request a short introduction to ease you into your newfound relation.

#4: Keep up with the conversations until you’ve met 15 to 20 specialists

Remember what we mentioned in the introduction about the ‘Spiral Method’? The approach is essentially made of 15 to 20 meetings with people in your network and their extended connections. Hence, keep up with the conversations until you’ve met about 15 to 20 industry experts.

As you reach your 10th conversation, you might have gathered some key concepts or keywords which require some research into. Don’t be afraid to use Google to do some reading up before you go on your next meeting with your 11th connection and beyond. The last thing you want to do is to rush into conversations without doing the necessary read-up on selected concepts beforehand.

Also, as you expand your network and receive referrals from your existing connections, you will be more likely to meet niche experts in the field. Remember to ask for the latest trend or where your particular subject is heading towards in the near future. These people have been in the market for an extended period and can be trusted with their predictability over what’s out on the worldwide web.

#5: Track your progress and recall the information you’ve learned throughout your conversations
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As we come to a close, be aware that it is absolutely normal for your learning rate to slow down as you progress. As a good gauge, about 60% of the information you hear may be new, while the other 40% is what is already ingrained in your mind by the 5th meeting.

Depending on the chosen topic and the people you meet, some spiral approaches may be at a faster or slower rate than others. That is why it’s essential that you track your progress by recalling the information you’ve picked up throughout your conversations.

Hopefully, by your 15th conversation, you would have maxed out your professional knowledge regarding that subject and no longer have to continue setting up meetings any further. But if there’s a need to continue, then go ahead until you’ve reached the peak point where there’s no need to speak to anyone anymore.

There‘s more to researching than just relying on Google. Try using the ‘Spiral Method’ next time!

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Here’s where to bag home the best range of cocktails online

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Welcome to a new month! As we enter the first week of November, COVID-19 restrictions under Singapore’s Stabilisation Phase are still in place until 21 November. This also means that the majority of us are still working from home and social gatherings are capped to a maximum of two persons.

Since no one knows how COVID-19 can surprise us, it would take a while for us to gather in groups again. Not sure when you can have your in-person alcohol party again? We’re unsure too. However, as most of us are pro-Zoom-ers by now, it would make sense to organise an online booze gathering for now.

But not without your premium alcohol in place. Here’s where to bag home the best range of cocktails online.

#1: Fairmont At Home

Anti:dote Bottled Cocktails

Managed by a 5-star luxury hotel, Fairmont Singapore, Fairmont At Home offers limited edition bottled cocktails that are currently on sale (at the time of writing). From S$19.25 (promo price), you can get a taste of these unique concoctions:

  • Apple of My Pie: Glenfiddich 12 Yr Whisky | Calvados | Salted Caramel | Rooibos Tea
  • Cold Brew Martini: Grey Goose Vodka | Coffee Liqueur | Cold Brew Coffee | Demerara Sugar
  • Smokey Old Fashioned: Smokey Monkey Whisky | Rich Demerara Syrup | Aromatic Bitters
  • Queen’s Favourite: Hendrick’s Gin | Reyka Vodka | Coffee Vermouth | Orange & Cardamom Bitters
  • Bread & Butter: Monkey Shoulder Whisky infused with Burnt Butter & Raisins | Vanilla Syrup | Chocolate Bitters
#2: The Alkaff Mansion

Fiesta for Five Bundle

The Alkaff Mansion has a Fiesta for Five Bundle consisting of these five cocktails:

  • El Capitan: Rum | Lime | Mint | Lychee
  • Basque Berry: Vodka | Thyme | Strawberry
  • The Senorita: Rum | Lime | Lychee | Cranberry
  • Thyme to Jive: Gin | Lime | Mint | Basil | Thyme
  • Tinto De Pintxo: Herbs | Red Wine | Fresh Fruits

At just S$70, you can experience the fun of home bartending. Tinto De Pintxo (The Alkaff Mansion’s take on Sangria) and Basque Berry will sit very well with the classic cocktail lovers and can be bought individually if you don’t want the bundle.

#3: Nutmeg & Clove

 

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If you want a local interpretation of your usual cocktails, Nutmeg & Clove is the place to shop at. They have a full list of bottled high ball and signature cocktails starting at just S$40. Here are just some 250ml ones to name a few:

  • Yuzu: Hendrick’s Gin | Yuzu | Citrus | 2 Bottles London Essence Indian Tonic
  • Lychee: Haku Vodka | Lychee | Elderflower | 2 Bottles London Essence White Peach & Jasmine Soda
  • Almost Colourless Negroni: Monkey 47 Dry Gin | Suze | Chrysanthemum | Bianco Vermouth | Bitters
  • Is This Really Boulevardier: Havana Club Rum 7YO | Coconut Vermouth | Coffee Campari | Pandan
  • Matcha & Mint: Havana Club 3YO Rum | Match | Mint | Lemongrass | Citrus | 2 Bottles London Essence Ginger Ale
#4: Tippling Club

 

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You may have seen Tippling Club while walking past Tanjong Pagar Road. This is what Sethlui had to say about their alcoholic beverages:

“These cocktails will definitely make you see the world in a different way. From pleasant to painful memories and feelings, the unique tastes of these sweet treats and alcoholic beverages made me think long and hard about my own dreams and desires.”

Similar to Nutmeg & Clove, the Tippling Club has a variety of cocktails priced from $40. Here are a few of the lowest-priced ones in 225ml bottles:

  • El Diablo: Tequila | Cassi | Citrus | Ginger
  • Army & Navy: Gin | Almond | Citrus | Bitters
  • Jungle Bird: Dark Rum | Pineapple | Campari | Citrus
  • Sonic Negroni: Gin | Vermouth | Campari | Soundwaves
  • Hawaiian Stone Sour: Scotch | Pineapple | Honey | Citrus
#5: Native Bar

 

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Native Bar is sited along Amoy Street and associates itself as a brand that uses regional products and ingredients. We took a look at their bottled cocktail menu and saw more than 10 items alcohol lovers will adore.

Starting from just S$48, here are some 250ml mixtures we think you will be hooked on:

  • Pandan: Indian Single Malt Whisky | Pandan | Jaggery | Himalayan salt
  • Peranakan: Jackfruit Rum | Laksa Leaves | Goat’s Milk | Candlenut | Gula Melaka
  • Guava: Compendium Honey Spirit | Pink Guava | Laksa Leaves | Kaffir Lime Leaves (Carbonated)
  • Japanese Grasshopper: Junmai Sake | Matcha Ice Cream | Yuzu Kombucha | Sake Lees | Shio Koji
  • Umami Five-O (250ml): Shiitake Distillate | Black Garlic | Cherry Tomatoes | Kampot Pepper | Sriracha | PBD Pickles
#6: Compendium Spirits

Childhood Cocktail Box

As part of a collaboration between Compendium and Section D, we would like to highlight their Childhood Cocktail Box priced from S$88. Take a trip down memory lane as you channel the inner mixologist in you to create these two drinks – the Adult Sippy Cup and the Tipsy Skippy.

The Adult Sippy Cup infuses our nostalgic Want Want milk and biscuit snacks to create a milky, comforting booze to chase our adult woes away. As for Tipsy Skippy, it’s a recipe that uses Skippy’s creamy peanut butter in your cocktail. Peanut butter cocktail may sound weird but try it and you may be in for a pleasant surprise!

For the price you pay, you will get:

  • 1x Chendol Gin (100ml)
  • 1x “V” Dry Vermouth (50ml)
  • 1x Want Want Milk
  • 2x Soda water
  • 3x Want Want Milk Biscuits
  • 1x Spiced Rum (100ml)
  • 1x Teh-O Liqueur (50ml)
  • 1x Marigold UHT Milk
  • 1x Skippy’s Creamy Peanut Butter
  • 1x Childhood Cocktail Box Recipe Card

Think you will be concocting cocktails for a long time to come? Add on S$20 and have a Cocktail Tool Set consisting of a shaker, a jigger, and a stirrer sent to you.


And that’s all from us! Have a lovely time but drink in moderation, folks.

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What you should do if you have a seemingly lazy colleague

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Do you have that one colleague you can’t stand because they just don’t seem to be doing work? Maybe it’s arriving late at work, taking an unreasonably long lunch, or clocking off way too early before 6pm?

If their sluggish actions aren’t directly affecting you, it’s good to let go. However, if it’s slowly eating into your workload, maybe it’s time to raise it to the management. But before you make your way to the higher-ups, try to see if you can keep it low-key. Here’s what you should do if you have a seemingly lazy colleague.

Schedule for an honest talk

Humans are quick to judge. To save you from embarrassment, it’s good to schedule an honest talk with your coworker.

Putting emotions aside, enter the conversation in a neutral stance. Let the other party know that their work habits have been affecting you trying to complete your tasks. Then, ask if there are any reasons behind their actions. Chances are, you might find out a thing or two about their circumstance.

Guide, don’t do it on their behalf
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Maybe you’ve spoken to your colleague and realised that they are just pure lazy. Should that be the case, don’t do their work on their behalf.

Such workers can be very skilled in persuading people to take on their responsibilities, so the last thing you want to do is fall into their trap. For example, if your coworker doesn’t seem to know how to do basic editing via Photoshop, suggest courses for upskilling. Or, if you have extra time on your hands, record a video and provide step by step instructions to aid them.

Distract yourself from distraction

Lazy colleagues can become a huge distraction if you allow them to. That is, you authorise their behaviours to take your focus away on the urgent tasks at hand.

Instead of spending the entire day’s energy complaining or being frustrated at how they chitter chatter or aimlessly scroll through their social media accounts without doing much, distract yourself from that distraction. You can choose to work somewhere else where they are not in sight or put on your noise-cancelling earbuds to tune them out.

Be explicit on what you want to be done
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As we come to the end of this article, know that there are people out there who constantly require pushy nudges. You want to be clear on what needs to be done with such personalities.

Tell them exactly when you need the task to be completed and make sure your team is in the loop on the matter. When there are more eyeballs on the situation, this will at least point that particular colleague to get up and get moving to meet the deadline. It’s also a great chance to see if your coworker is genuinely lazy or simply lacks the initiative to get started with work tasks.

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