Dark Attitudes On Money

“You can only become truly accomplished at something you love. Don’t make money your goal. Instead, pursue the things you love doing, and then do them so well that people can’t take their eyes off you.”
– Maya Angelou

Maya Angelou is right. Sprinkling love in what you do attracts accomplishments and money. Our attitudes towards money play an important part in either attracting it or driving it away.

Growing in a supportive environment where you can talk about money matters openly will enable you to attract money in various ways. On the flip side,it can be more difficult to attract money if you are underestimating your skills. Moreover, dark attitudes toward money can contribute to the lack of self-esteem and motivation.

Having a negative attitude towards money will hinder you from tackling opportunities and will steer you to make errors in your judgement. These may cause you to lose money in the process. Hence, it is important to identify your money attitudes.

Here are just some negative attitudes that you should stop:

I DO NOT DESERVE MONEY

Believing that you do not deserve money or that money is the root of evil causes you to avoid money. For people with this attitude, money can evoke feelings of anxiety and disgust.

I PRAISE MONEY

Believing that money can solve all your problems is a bad attitude to have. People who are trapped by this “money worship” attitude can carry an outstanding debt. Greed can course through your veins when you worship money too much.

I AM DEFINE BY MY WEALTH

Believing that self-worth is tied to your net worth is unhealthy. You can keep up with others as much as you want, but you cannot be fully satisfied.

I AM SECRETIVE ABOUT MY FINANCES

Lack of openness in one’s finances can potentially brew an issue between couples. While people with this attitude are often financially stable, they often do not allow themselves to enjoy the benefits of having money. Extreme cases of having this attitude can lead to under-spending and hoarding. Talk about extreme cheapskate!

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The “Dark Side” Of These Good Financial Acts

Many people believe that “no good deed goes unpunished”. This may sound ironic to you, but not all good intentions draw positive results.

There are many financial good deeds that can haunt even the most generous of souls. It is best to approach the following situations with caution.

#1: BEING CONSISTENT WITH YOUR CHILD’S ALLOWANCE

The subject of child’s allowance steers a debate in many parent forums. As a parent, is it your responsibility to provide a monthly allowance for your child? Or, should you make them earn it?

A study showed that teenagers who received allowance did worse on a financial literacy test than their counterparts. Giving a steady allowance without rules takes away the sense of accountability. Ultimately, parents are advised to have their children “work” for the money. Chores may be attached to the amount of allowance they will get. Alternatively, you may provide a given amount of funds to your child. Your adolescent must use his or her budgeting skills to purchase back-to-school items and other essentials.

#2: DONATING TO UNAUTHORIZED CHARITY

With pure intentions in your heart, you decided to donate half of your monthly salary to your local charity. However, you failed to do prior background check on the owners of the nonprofit organization. To your horror, the organization was a complete scam from the start! This scenario can happen to anyone.

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As unfortunate as this may sound, not all charities live up to its mission. Before you donate to a charity, take some time to research the organization and the founders. You may also read their annual report and other public financial documents.

Ensure that your donation will go to an honest cause! Go to www.charities.gov.sg for more information.

#3: LENDING MONEY TO FAMILY AND FRIENDS

Let us face it! Money has a potential to put a strain on any relationship. When you lend money to a relative or a friend in need, you may not be certain on whether you can get the money back or not.

On the other hand, you may be in debt to family member. In worst cases, said relative may feel that he or she has the right to exert control over your life or to criticize your spending habits. Imagine the amount of guilt that you will feel!

To avoid conflicts and other misunderstandings, craft a legal agreement that outlines the terms of loan including the interest rate and the repayment schedule.

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Have your good financial deeds backfired before? Leave your stories down below!

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Surefire Ways To Save Money Aside From Quitting The Lottery

One of the pastimes that my father has passed on to us was betting on the lottery. Whether you are an avid fan of the 4D or TOTO, many people believe that winning these can give them a shot to be a crazy rich Asian overnight.

Reality check! That is not the case for many of us. In fact, a recent Facebook post showed that you can earn a significant amount of money by saving your “lottery funds”. Eilin Tan from Malaysia shared how her father saved up all the money he would normally spend on buying 4D. He started last January 2018. A year later, he found that the total savings was equivalent to the top prize. Both were shocked! Netizens estimate that the money could be worth RM6,000 to RM15,000 (about S$1,900 to S$4,900).

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Much like Eilin’s father, you can commit to simple changes in your life to improve your finances. Start with these aspects:

#1: ASSIGN A FINANCIAL DATE

Much like designating a day for your beloved, you must assign a day to assess your finances. The first step towards saving money is to look at your current spending habits. Which categories can you cut down on? Find specific areas in your expenses which you can reduce without compromising your lifestyle.

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Afterwards, you must track your progress in relation to your financial goals. Spend time with your money to improve your financial life.

#2: WAIT BEFORE YOU CHECK OUT

When it comes to saving money, make delayed gratification your best friend!

These days, you can get anything you want with a quick click or tap of a button. There is an instant gratification for almost anything you can think of. To combat impulse buying brought by said convenience, you may find a buffer. Employ a self-imposed waiting time. Wait a day or two before spending your money on things that cost more than S$60. When you practice this on a regular basis, you will realize that most of your purchases are triggered by wants rather than your needs. Moreover, you will be able to save more money and work towards mindful spending.

#3: CHOOSE QUALITY OVER QUANTITY

Minimalism is one of the latest trends that I subscribe to. It encourages consumers to choose quality over quantity. This can be applied to clothes, gadgets, food, home decorations, bags, and so on.

Yes! It may be tempting to purchase cheaper alternatives on a regular basis. However, you must remember that your small purchases add up! Choosing quality products will help you save money in the long run.

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What is the best that you can afford now? Use the cost-per-wear philosophy when it comes to clothing, accessories, and shoes. Stick to classic silhouettes, which you can use for a long time.

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Countdown To Retirement: The Final 5 Years

One of the most significant transitions in your life is about to begin. In a blink of an eye, you have reached your 60s. Retirement may not be a pressing concern for most of your working life, but it is surely happening soon.

The sense of urgency stimulates your awareness. You will begin to pay close attention to insurance commercials and to the company’s retirement benefits. You will go through your CPF savings and analyze whether it is enough. How about your investments? Is your money invested on an aggressive portfolio or not? More importantly, do you have a last will and testament?

Many of us consider retirement as a vague and seemingly distant concept rather than something happening in the near future. With this mindset, you may not be able to prepare well it. Use the last five years to examine your financial situation. Make the appropriate moves to substantially improve your life during retirement.

CLOCK: FIVE YEARS BEFORE RETIREMENT

There is no doubt in the saying: “the first cut is the deepest”. You can call it a rude awakening, but this initial step will dictate your future actions. Examine your overall financial situation.

Be honest with yourself. How much have you saved up while you were working? Do you have other streams of income that can generate enough cash to cover your fixed expenses in retirement? How much can your CPF cover?

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I understand the brewing worries tied up to these numbers. It is time to face your fears! Know that there is still time to change your investment strategies, to eliminate unnecessary expenses, and to re-frame your retirement expectations. Seek the help of a qualified financial adviser who specializes in retirement planning. He or she can sort out all your concerns including the making of you last will and testament.

CLOCK: THREE YEARS BEFORE RETIREMENT

While work can be stressful, it can also give a sense of accomplishment. What will happen once it is taken from you?

Aside from organizing your financial plans during retirement, you must determine how you will occupy your time. Many of us forget this aspect of aging. It is important to contemplate on how you will occupy yourself in retirement. Consider the Psychological or emotional impact of not having a steady job or not having a routinely “purpose”. Your feelings may be similar to undergoing loss.

Yesterday, my grandfather told us that he is planning to travel overseas. He wants to dedicate this time of solitude on searching for peace and happiness. This may sound cliché to some, but he never had the time to travel on his own. You may want to spend your retirement touring the world. Like my grandfather, consider what will bring you happiness.

Do not be afraid to explore hobbies or join social group within your neighborhood. These things will keep engaged once you are retired.

CLOCK: A YEAR BEFORE RETIREMENT

During this time, your primary goal is to cut down your debts and spending. This is where your retirement budget comes in handy!

You will probably experience a considerable drop in income once your paychecks go away. Following this logic, your retirement expenses should not necessarily mirror your current expenses. You need to adjust your lifestyle following a monthly budget that will include costs like healthcare and leisure activities. Know how much you can realistically afford with the help of your financial adviser.

Lastly, you must take a look at your investment portfolio. If your savings appear to deliver the income you need in retirement, some experts recommend to pull back on your stocks. Use this money to invest on short-term investments or other conservative asset classes. I am not saying that you should suddenly become a risk-averse investor. Instead, you need to make more calculated moves. Growing your portfolio over the next couple of decades entails exposure to stocks.

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Ultimately, preparing for retirement will support the remaining years of your life.

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How To Fool Yourself Into Saving Money

If money could talk, my wallet would be having a farewell party. I am not exaggerating! The weight of the Yuletide Season has been hard on my budget. You see, we are constantly bombarded with flashy sales and social gatherings.

The materialistic temptations becomes harder to resist due to the year-end bargains. Not to mention, the convenience of swiping a credit card makes spending easy!

Fortunately for you, there are other strategies that you can employ to save money. See how much you can potentially save with these four money tricks!

PUSH THE AUTOPILOT

How can you spend money that you do not see? This is no “vanishing coin act”! Instead, I am referring to automating your savings. Setting up an automatic transfer to your savings account can help you fulfill your financial goals. Whether you are looking forward to the night market or the BTS concert in Thailand, your expenses can be covered by your savings.

There is truth to the phrase: pay yourself first. Allotting a portion of your income to personal savings is as easy as allocating a budget for your phone bill. Upon getting into the habit of saving, you will be able to resist the temptation of spending. Ask your bank for guidance in automating your transactions.

EVERY CENT COUNTS

As I was walking to a dollar store, I saw an elderly man leaning towards the coin he just dropped. No matter how small a currency may seem, every cent counts. It is only logical to say that keeping your loose change in the course of the year can add up to a few hundreds of dollars! So, consider developing the habit of growing your cents.

Begin by getting an empty jar. You may turn it into an arts and crafts activity by having your child decorate the surface of your jar. Afterwards, empty the contents of your wallet every three days. Pour all the loose change into your decorated money jar. By December, you may exchange these coins for bills at your local bank. Growing your money jar will not only declutter your wallet, but also grow your wealth.

REMOVE THESE NUMBERS

Let us face it! Online shopping has been more prevalent than ever. The mere fact that you can get a blanket set from IKEA Singapore within three business days only shows how convenient it is to shop. The virtual market’s prompt gratification can breed addiction. Personally speaking, a friend of mine gets various packages sent on a weekly basis. It is crazy how each one comes from different parts of the world!

You open more rooms for financial vulnerability by setting up a customer account and saving your credit card information. So, consider deleting your online shopping accounts.

Adding an extra layer of difficulty while shopping gives you more time to weigh whether you really need to purchase an item or not. If you lack courage to delete the information on your own, you may ask the help of your trusted spouse. Who knows? This third party intervention may just be the solution to avoid impulse purchases.

A SINGLE QUESTION

As I was walking inside a fast-fashion store, I realized how random purchases can take a toll into my finances. Stocking up on adorable yet unnecessary items on Daiso can affect my budget for the next day. If only you can ask yourself a single question!

Do you believe that a single question can change your spending outlook? Well, it sure is possible! Who knew that a sequence of words can convince you to leave a shop without a cart full of non-essential items.

Simply ask yourself this: “Did I need it yesterday?” If you do not need it yesterday, you probably do not need to buy it today. By asking acknowledging whether an item is a need or want can help you stick to your budget.

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Saving money does not have to be a chore! May these easy tricks help you reach your savings faster than you would have thought.

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