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4 Steps To Overcome Family-Related Money Problems

The extent of your economic slowdown may vary from eating out less to changing your living conditions. Parents may not have enough money to put toward rent or school fees. These financial problems can take a toll on one’s mental and physical health. Thus, overcoming said hurdles is important.

To tackle these family-centered issues head-on, you must start with these four steps:

#1: DETERMINE THE ISSUE/S

It goes without saying that it is difficult to defeat the enemies that you cannot see. Try asking the ninjas! Similarly, how can you find solutions to a problem that you are not aware of?

Thus, the first step to overcoming family-related money problems is to identify the underlying issues. Financial problems are usually parts of a larger issue. Here are some common issues that you may think about:

a. Newborn (of first-time parents)
b. Unemployment
c. Addiction / Substance Abuse
d. Divorce

#2: OPEN THE COMMUNICATION STREAMS

As a child who sees his or her parents fighting constantly about money, talking about your worries can help. Find an appropriate time to discuss about the financial matters with your parents. If you cannot approach them right now, you may lean on a trusted friend or a credible counselor.

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Do not hesitate to seek for professional help if the need arises.

#3: RANK YOUR FINANCIAL PRIORITIES

After addressing your triggers, it is best to create a path towards active resolution. Begin by writing down and ranking your financial priorities. Some may be as direct as paying off your credit card bills. While, others may focus on your lifestyle goals such as repairing your aesthetically pleasing home.

Nevertheless, it is important to create a realistic budget suited to controlling your financial problems.

#4: CREATE A SAFETY NET

The future of your wealth is up to you! As the above steps have illustrated, you must review your current financial circumstance and create a straightforward path. To prevent further damage or cushion unforeseen events, consider cultivating an emergency fund.

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Families are recommended to have a sufficient amount worth at least 6 months of your income. Do not rely solely on credit cards for emergencies!

Sources: 1 & 2

4 Budget-Friendly Halloween Events For The Entire Family

Halloween in Singapore is nothing but SPOOKTACULAR!

Embody the festive spirit without breaking the bank by searching for free or affordable activities within your community. You will not believe how many there are out there!

1. NIGHT AT THE MUSEUM

Immerse yourself in a world where Asian superstitions and beliefs come to life as Asian Civilisations Museum brings you the “Horror Mash Up”! This annual event includes activities and performances inspired by their stellar collection. Expect to hear haunting tales, to strike eerie poses at their dress-up booths, and to make your own spooky souvenir. Activities will run from 7:00 pm to 11:00 pm while the museum operates until 12:00 midnight.

This FREE event, ideally for your teens, is set on October 28.

Location: Asian Civilisations Museum, 1 Empress Place, Singapore 179555

2. TRICK OR TREAT

No Halloween celebration is complete without “Trick or Treat”. A massive gathering awaits at Woodlands Woodgrove. With your costume, you can roam the neighborhood from 5:30 pm to 8:00 pm (or until the treats run out). Kids of all ages along with their parents will come together to make the most of this day.

Do not forget to mark your calendars on October 31! Joining the exciting event is free, but you can donate to its sponsors.

Location: Woodgrove Neighbourhood (refer to the map)

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3. LITTLE MONSTERS’ PLAYGROUP

Are you looking for an event that lets you bond with your adorable ones? Look no further as Australian International School brings you the “Halloween Playgroup”. Toddlers to children aged 5 are all welcome to dress as magical and mystical creatures. The activities lined up for your little (and beloved) monsters include dancing, games, and storytelling. If these sound fun to you, book your spot here!

This FREE event is scheduled on October 17. Registration starts at 9:00 am.

Location: Australian International School, 1 Lorong Chuan, Singapore 556 818

4. FOR MOMS AND BUBS

Shine in your most creative costumes with your baby to win attractive prizes from Bove! Bove by Spring Maternity’s “Halloween Dress-Up Party” includes the following highlights:

a. Tea Party with Popcorns & Cotton Candies
b. Photobooth experience with instant printouts
c. Crowning of the Best-Dressed Halloween Baby and Toddler, as well as
d. Goodie bags from the event sponsor.

This is the only event on this list that lets you pay for the admission, but fret not. Ticket are sold at S$5 each. Oh! Babies 12 months and below are free of charge.

Location: 3 Temasek Blvd, #02–728/729/730, Suntec City Branch,Tower 4, Singapore 038983

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6 Money-Saving Tips For All Supermoms

ACCEPT THE PRELOVED

Until the credit statement arrives on your doorstep, you may have no idea about the money you spend on clothing and baby items. Cushion the expenses by embracing the hand-me-downs offered by friends and family members. Accept the toys, home accessories, and maternity items.

You can always donate the unnecessary items on the block’s donation drive. Doing so will not only help you declutter, but it will also help the ones in crucial need.

FILL THE PANTRY

Juggling the corporate and domestic life is challenging. Due to the limited time, you may either frequent the grocery for last-minute shopping or the nearby restaurant for take-out meals. A healthier solution is to keep a well-stock pantry. Purchase items that will last the family for at least a week.

As Holly Clegg, culinary expert and food author, once said: Think of a well-stocked pantry as a permanent shopping list. This tip will enable moms to cook more meals efficiently, timely and more affordable.”

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LEAVE YOUR MONEY

Are you planning to hangout with your buddies any time soon? Consider bringing the exact amount that you are willing to spend and leave the rest at home. Suggest affordable yet entertaining activities such as art appreciation (e.g., roaming ACM or SAM) and game night (e.g., themed dinner at someone’s home). If your girl friends insist on shopping, you will not be tempted to purchase anything that you cannot afford.

Do you really need those tempting items anyway? I do not think so!

LISTEN TO OTHERS

I can vividly recall the time I was strolling the mall with my significant other. My feet were sore due to the high-heeled shoes that I opted for. Brought by strong emotions, I would rather purchase a new shoe that I do not need than to tolerate the pain. We visited a store that I previously ignored. Then, my partner reminded me that none of the products appealed to me last time I was there. The collection did not change. “You only like this because of the momentary use and not because you will use it again”, he said. He made a fair point! I saved a decent amount of money that day.

Listen to the opinions of other people who care genuinely about your financial future. Tally your monthly savings to remind yourself and your spouse about your recent accomplishment. Use this as a motivation to go further.

GIVE THEM ALLOWANCE

A sizzling topic among Singaporean parents is whether or not children shall receive allowance at such a young age. Some parents are concerned about the wastage of money on ridiculous items, while others want to cultivate financial responsibility. Bekah Jorgensen (blogger of Mother Moment) highlights the advantage of giving an allowance as it “sets a policy that if they want something that isn’t a need, they buy it themselves or wait for the next gift-giving holiday.” Children are empowered to save their money to buy what they want.

Furthermore, it avoids the embarassing tantrums in store and the impulse purchases that comes with it.

PROTECT YOUR INDIVIDUALITY

Who knew that you will become a devoted mom further down the road? Well, life is unpredictable. You will never know which turns will come next. You just have to make the most out of what you have and exhaust all your resources. Speaking of resources, it is best to keep your own personal account. This account will help maintain your financial autonomy and support your spouse’s credit history.

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For significant commitments such as a car or a flat, you will have to work together to pay the loans. Having two streams of account will help speed up the process.

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Financial Checklist For Expectant Parents

The late Janet Reno once said: “I have learned that raising children is the single most difficult thing in the world to do. It takes hard work, love, luck, and a lot of energy. It is the most rewarding experience that you can ever have.”

Creating and nurturing a baby in Singapore is no walk in the park! Encountering sleepless nights, medical scares, and embarrassing moments are unavoidable. One is never completely prepared for what is about to come. However, you can start planning for your future by considering this financial checklist.

#1: DRAFT YOUR PRENATAL BUDGET

You are about to bring life into this exciting and challenging world. Tackle each day with ease by knowing how much you will be spending in the next couple of months. There are many lifestyle adjustments that come with having a baby. Include the food expenses, medical costs, insurance contributions, and so on.

Be honest with yourself when shopping for baby items. Do you really need a trendy stroller with an LCD control panel? Set a tangible line between what is necessary and what is forgivable. For instance, you can save on the disposable diapers by converting to the cloth diapers. Or, you may revamp an old drawer into a changing table. Use your creativity when maximizing your dollars and spend within your bounds.

#2: DETERMINE THE AMOUNT OF YOUR RESERVE

Becoming a preschool teacher made me realize that significant things can happen when you leave a toddler for several seconds. I am not exaggerating. One student may be chewing on the toys while you are trying to get groom the other. I can still recall when I was curious about the air conditioner and ended up with several cuts on my fingers. Being prepared for your baby’s potential accidents is a must!

I recommend that you take a look at your financial reservoir (or emergency fund). Having at least six months’ worth of living expenses covered is a good start point.

#3: UNDERSTAND THE HEALTH INSURANCE’S SCOPE

It is no secret that having a baby in Singapore is expensive, even if you have health insurance. Navigate your attention into the prenatal care, labor, and newborn costs. You need to understand which expenses your insurance will pay for you. There are diverse maternity insurance packages available on the market now! One is the OCBC MaxMaternity Care. It is the first maternity insurance plan that covers its clients as early as 13 weeks into their pregnancy. They will cover your costs for specific types of pregnancy complications.

Aside from understanding the scope of your policy, you must include your baby in your primary health insurance. You can typically change your records within 30 to 60 days after delivery. Do it as soon as possible as you do not want to be caught with an ill newborn and no coverage!

#4: IDENTIFY YOUR CHILDCARE ARRANGEMENTS

We are lucky to be blessed with childcare options ranging from a conservative preschool to an eclectic day care centre. If both you and your spouse are working full-time, recognize that a large number of your monthly costs will go to childcare (i.e., sometimes even more than your rent). This is why you must weigh your options and alternatives. By alternatives, I am pertaining to the relatives that can aid you along the way.

It is an acceptable idea for Asian families to ask for help from their parents. The grandparents-to-be may be available for two days a week. This could help you lessen the financial load. If you wish to hire a nanny, be sure to check the government fees and regulations surrounding it.

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The cost of having a baby does not stop when he or she goes to school! So, consider formulating a long-term financial plan beyond the first few years.

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How Married Couples Can Deal With Huge Salary Gaps

Whether you want to admit it or not, income plays an integral part in the society’s perception of your worth and success. Fusing the the topic of finances to relationships makes things more complicated.

To some degree, your paycheck determines your role in a romantic relationship. An imbalance is created when your spouse earns more than you or the other way around. It is believed that the person who has a higher salary has increased options and financial freedom. Nonetheless, you must address the huge salary gap between you and your partner.

Here are just some tips to help you deal with your current situation:

COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY

Practicing open communication is one of the best ways to resolve issues in marriage (or any romantic relationship). If you are frustrated with your spouse because he or she is not making an effort to find a new job then, talk about it. If you feel guilty for spending more money than your spouse then, talk about it.

Start your financial discussion in a loving manner without accusing the other of anything. You are a family. You should not treat this like a heated battle or a boiling competition. The end goal is to help each other out.

ESTABLISH A BUDGET

Imagine taking a long ride in an unfamiliar place. Your journey can take you into different directions. To create a distinct path, you must follow a map. The same idea applies to your finances. To create a distinct path to your financial goal, you must set a budget.

Establishing a budget lets you allocate a specific amount to each member of the family. Also, you will be able to determine each other’s spending habits. Beginners in budgeting are recommended to use the envelope system.

RESPECT ONE’S ABILITY TO EARN

Before I went to bed, I came across a online discussion at Reddit. The thread surrounded the issue of having any significant achievement gaps between couples. Interestingly, these couples live in harmony.Reddit user pecrh001‘s story caught my attention.

“I have 2 degrees and work as a lawyer. My husband never finished uni but has a job that he loves. He’s a great father and husband. It doesn’t really matter that I earn more than him because it’s all just family money. We’re both working hard and supporting each other and our kids.”

Finding someone who respects you as a person and your ability to earn is more important than the degree that you are holding. Being successful on paper does not translate to your character. Each other’s money is valuable. Forget keeping score!

GIVE AND TAKE

Another important practice that the Reddit thread highlighted is the balance between the two individuals. You must have the chance to give and take. Reddit user The_Superbus illustrated this by posting:

“I worked two jobs while she was in medical school and one job while she was in residency. Now I work no jobs while she is an attending. She likes the fact that I do most of the work around the house so she doesn’t have to. I like the fact that I haven’t had to go to work for the last few years. It also lets us raise our own kid without relying on daycare for 9 hours a day, which is nice.”

EMPLOY A REWARD SYSTEM

After months and months of hard work, you may feel exhausted and overwhelmed. Break the cycle by motivating with reasonable rewards. For instance, you may go to a fancy dinner when your money exceed your budget or when you achieve a financial goal.

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Rewarding each other is a way to remind yourselves that the money you make belongs to the both of you.

Sources: 1 & 2

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